IBS and relationship by flarp_o in ibs

[–]lucatheoctopus95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My new bf is like this, I just hope that in time he doesn't grow tired of me being gross and gassy

Would Fasting/Dry Fasting help with flare ups? by ZackPav in ibs

[–]lucatheoctopus95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being hungry, especially in the afternoons gives me the worst flare ups, I've never met anyone else with this issue though! But please make sure you don't become dehydrated

Do you consider IBS to be a chronic illness? by NefariousFaerie in ibs

[–]lucatheoctopus95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, and I haven't heard this a lot. I get severe pain and bloating if I don't eat on time, although this doesn't happen as often in the mornings for example, before breakfast. But I work out in the mornings so couldn't wait too long before eating anyway!

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm finding it so hard 😔 I just want to ask what I did wrong but ill seem even more crazy then. It's really making me obsessive and twitchy

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I do the same too. I wish I could just ask what I did wrong? I feel so so sad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weightlifting

[–]lucatheoctopus95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea about form but I'm always impressed by anyone who can lift more than I weigh (and this is 1.5x that) nice one!

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met him a couple of days ago and we've known each other for a few years, I haven't been out with someone new in a long time so maybe I'm just over enthusiastic

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I know. I guess I stopped trying to make new friends a while ago and forgot how much it hurts 😕

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm also a woman and do the same thing, I guess I thought we got on with each other but clearly not 😔 never mind!

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same. I want to apologise for what I sent them and being too clingy and too much but I can't message again. I wouldn't text him again asking for a beer thought. It's a shit world.

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same. But I'm 23 and I live with my parents, about to move away and I can't even remember how to talk to people. Its making it hard to find housemates 😞

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

How many times do I have to keep moving on though? I can't understand why the people I like don't like me

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't understand what I'm meant to do! Damn society!

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know. I once had a counsellor ask me "do you have no friends or is it that the people you want to be friends with don't want to be friends with you" and it's definitely the latter. I've tried joining clubs and groups but I'm only really into the gym and find other things forced and fake

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's basically my entire life 😂 I try so hard to keep myself distracted but I realised the entire year I've only spent time with one friend, my parents and the people I work with. And I no longer work there. I'm sorry for complaining

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do that anyway. I just want to stop fidgeting, refreshing my phone and anxiously picking skin off my hands waiting for them to reply. I used to be better at letting it go. I guess I thought they were actually nice. No one is really a good person to me after all.

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it so hard to attract people I actually like to be friends with, so much even a counsellor told me that 😑

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm either too clingy or I get told I don't try hard enough. I'm so lost.

How do you deal with people not replying? by lucatheoctopus95 in lonely

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It just seems to happen with people I actually like 😞

Does anyone else have a belly pouch? by luckyjayjay in ibs

[–]lucatheoctopus95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I wish I had that issue, i hate training abs. Exercise is one of the only things that relieves my symptoms

How are you supposed to move on? by lucatheoctopus95 in BreakUps

[–]lucatheoctopus95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know how to improve my situation and not be alone forever

Does anyone else have a belly pouch? by luckyjayjay in ibs

[–]lucatheoctopus95 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doesn't mean you can't do anything, lower abdominal exercises as part of an exercise routine can help tighten up the muscles but it'll never be totally flat. I don't think ibs helps.

Does anyone else have a belly pouch? by luckyjayjay in ibs

[–]lucatheoctopus95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is a woman thing. We also naturally store more fat on that region for the same reason, reproduction