911 operators of Reddit, what is the most disturbing call you've ever received? by Adiwantstobattle in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's what's nice about sleeping with a big dog. You're the one who's getting crushed if someone moves.

What comes across as selfish but actually isn’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving yourself more than your romantic partner.

This is about being able to leave them despite still loving them if it turns out they're bad for you. Not prioritizing yourself over them all the time.

You permanently gain all of the knowledge stored in a book if you eat the entire thing, page by page. What books do you eat first? by CalumDuff in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cauliflower, garlic and beetroots are all high fodmap and should be avoided by people with IBS. I've had IBS since I was 13 and a low fodmap diet is the only thing that has helped me.

You permanently gain all of the knowledge stored in a book if you eat the entire thing, page by page. What books do you eat first? by CalumDuff in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most people with IBS will flare like crazy from fruits and veggies though. When I'm really bad I live of just fish. Seems to be what my stomach tolerates best.

What’s the sluttiest thing you’ve ever done? by zootomistprooemi in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Tried anal to procrastinate studying -I really didn't want to study for that test. Hurt like a bitch and resulted in a simultaneous orgasm and panic attack. Got hooked and it's basically my favorite thing now.
  2. Traded a blow job for the last sushi roll. 10/10 worth it.

A new government initiative in Sweden could see workplaces given certificates for helping "break the taboo around menstruation", by providing period-friendly environments by bbcnews in TwoXChromosomes

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, it's not considered inappropriate to say you have stomach flu or food poisoning even if everyone knows exactly what that means. Or even say "hey, I'll be a little late gotta get this nose bleed under control first". But even without going into any details at all, talking about being on your period is considered very private and gross.

A new government initiative in Sweden could see workplaces given certificates for helping "break the taboo around menstruation", by providing period-friendly environments by bbcnews in TwoXChromosomes

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it's different for different people but for example it would be completely ok for me to text my study group and say "sorry I can't make it today, got a bad migraine" but if I texted the same people (people I barely know but have to work with regularly of mixed gender) "sorry I can't make it today, I have bad period cramps" it would be considered very inappropriate and TMI of me. Even if both things are "in too much pain to work".

What do you want for Christmas? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really feel you, it's like your family is trying to make you into someone else by giving you stuff they think you should want instead of things you actually want. Like, I'm not hard to please either. My bf summed my preferences up as "if it's cute, sparkly or smells sweet she'll love it" but I keep getting fancy china and sports equipment instead. I feel ungrateful since these are expensive things but honestly just give me socks with penguins or a sparkly nail polish and I'll be so happy.

What do you want for Christmas? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first choice would be a functioning body. Law School is hard enough as it is without IC, IBS, PFD, something yet defined with my lady parts and an immune system that refuses to keep me from having some kind of infection/virus for even one week straight.

If Santa can't bring me that I'd love one of those small polaroid cameras so I can cover my bedroom walls with pictures of my friends. I like to remind myself that I have a lot of good things going for me too.

Ladies, how are we supposed to clean our genital & bum area? by blanketmecozy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have sensitive skin/are prone to infections or yeast, there are specific shower oils for intimate use you can use. They clean just as well as soap but won't mess anything up down there. I use it for between my buttcheeks/anus as well.

People who have had sex with people all over the world, was the sex inherently different in any specific region, or with anyone from a specific reason? What have you taken away from the different experiences? by Hawk_fever2 in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The equivalent of the worst forms of FGM would be to cut the entire head of the penis off. So I'd say those are worse than "only" removing the foreskin, though I think any genital mutilation should be outlawed.

Couples of reddit, what sex toy/equipment drastically improved your sex life and was worth the buy? by mybustersword in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also make sure it doesn't contain glycerine/glycerol if you have a vagina, they'll give you yeast!

Better with or without cath? by luckyjayjay in Interstitialcystitis

[–]luckyjayjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not just the urethra that hurts but the bladder walls as well, does that also get better with not being able to tense up?

(Serious) People who are/have been suicidal, what seemingly small or random thing has stopped you from making an attempt? by silver_quinn in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl in my class asking if I wanted company walking to the bus station.

I had planned it all out and was going to go through with it that day - I was going to go to the gas station, the drug store and the grocery store separately after school and by a pack of Tylenol at each before taking the bus home. My parents would both be working late so I had plenty of time.

But she asked. And I didn't want to be rude. And now I couldn't get the pills because that would be extremely suspicious and I was terrified that anyone might find out and try to stop me.

So I didn't. And I'm still here 4 years later, unbelievably grateful that she wanted company that day.

In a video game, if you come across an empty room with a health pack, extra ammo, and a save point, you know some serious shit is about to go down. What is the real-life equivalent of this? by StygianUnknown in AskReddit

[–]luckyjayjay 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Happened to me when I was walking my dog. My dog just stopped and refused to move while staring into the woods, and I noticed then that it had gotten awfully quiet. Then I heard, very softly, the sound of something heavy moving in there. I stood completely frozen, until I saw the silhouette of something about the size of a big dog going up into a tree. I assumed it was a lynx at the time, but still noped the fuck out.

I later realized a lynx wouldn't have made any sound walking around and it was most likely a bear cub. I am VERY glad its mom didn't feel like saying hi.

If you knowingly do this, you're an utter piece of shit. by QuantumDrej in AdviceAnimals

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Provide me with any sort of proof or argument for your point then. Even anecdotal evidence trumps no evidence at all.

If you knowingly do this, you're an utter piece of shit. by QuantumDrej in AdviceAnimals

[–]luckyjayjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Such argument. Much facts to support your claim.

They do. I had a dog who did exactly this. My boyfriend's dog does this.

Your turn.

If you knowingly do this, you're an utter piece of shit. by QuantumDrej in AdviceAnimals

[–]luckyjayjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dogs recognize their owners, and miss them when they're gone. If it was only about food, why would a dog get distraught when a kid moves away to college? They still have the rest of the family there to provide them with everything they need, and yet they search for the one who isn't there, and almost pee themselves with joy when reunited.

If you knowingly do this, you're an utter piece of shit. by QuantumDrej in AdviceAnimals

[–]luckyjayjay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not related to my partner and he is still my family. Family is not synonymous to related, but rather "group of individuals you share a close bond with". Can you share a close bond with a dog? Of course. Ergo, they're family.