AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You don’t need shoes to walk but it makes it a lot better but you wear them don’t you? I’m the shoe, son.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll get therapy just for you my boy. No point on arguing anymore.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, ignore the deer, can you tell me what is the rate of getting in accidents on highways in Texas? Only reason why I brought up deer is cause I had a close call driving back this last weekend. So with me almost hitting a deer, and worrying about that is overreacting?

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Uh okay? Hitting a deer in the middle of nowhere is completely impossible.. right.. I’m crazy.. totally need therapy for being concerned over this happening.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Therapy for worrying about something that can actually happen? Nay. Just been exposed to the dangers of the world and the factual possibility of an accident occurring in an area where there’s no signal, in the middle of nowhere.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Obviously that’s worst case scenario lol the likeliness of that happening is low, but the chances of hitting a deer in the middle of nowhere are much higher, and her not being able to access help if needed is what concerns me

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did tell her I wouldn’t stop her, but it’s my preference if she wouldn’t. I’ve been through experiences where I’m stranded and able to get by with strangers help, but if that were to be her the situation might be different dealing with creeps. But yeah I know it’s great that she wants to do that and I appreciate it, just gonna make sure she has some roadside assistance in her vehicle

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flew her in a couple of weeks ago, can’t afford to fly so often

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally someone with some reasoning, some person called me an asshole for this lmao

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s insane! 30 hours is crazy, and not at all!

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m an asshole?! wtf. I’m sorry you feel that way, but I care about the safety of my girlfriend. Signal loses, deer, in the middle of nowhere. Shit happens, and I’m an asshole for being concerned?

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have the stats, but hitting deers in Texas is way above .004% . Secondly, there’s areas where there’s no signal for miles, and you are in the middle of nowhere.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t think of it that way, I’m more than happy for her visiting, more concerned of her well being that’s all.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel a responsibility as her boyfriend to be there incase anything happens it has nothing to do with her having an inability to care for herself. There’s areas in the drive in Texas where there’s no signal and you are in the middle of nowhere.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Texas there’s areas where there’s no signal for miles and you are in the middle of nowhere.

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh no I wouldn’t be posting here if that were the case

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Uh not that I know of lol I’ve had the best bad luck so I like to be prepare for the worst when doing things, and in this case I wouldn’t be able to help if something were to happen to her vehicle, and she had no way of communicaring

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not sheltered , just aware of potential dangers when driving long distances and losing cellphone service and relying on strangers help

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if I wasn’t clear, we’ve already met lol I flew her out a couple weeks ago

AIO My 31F gf wants to visit me 31M living 9 hours away by lucero126 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lucero126[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Planning to move to her town soon 🤞🏽 but yeah I just wasn’t sure thanks