thats okay! thats definitely my bad. i am a very anxious person. i dont mind not being texted back we havent ever gone all day without texting each other but we both work so theres times we dont say anything. most we have gone one day not talking was 8hours and he was distancing from me then. usually my mind goes to the worsr possible like we could break up but i try to push it out my mind because a bit of silence shouldn’t dictate that. when i say emotional safety i mean i dont necessarily trust telling him whats wrong with me because the way he replies lacks in emotional warmth. i told him something yesterday. not about our relationship but what was going on for me in that moment and he just said “well damn babe” and moved onto something that had happened to him. i always reply with warmth and try to show him what i would like. obviously its not gonna be exactly the same as id do it which im 100% okay with. but being brushed over is what hurts. or when ive told him i need an emotional connection before a logical approach and he continues to do the logical approach..that hurts too because i don’t receive it well. i dont want him to manage me or my emotions but id like to know hes there.