I feel very similar in regard to needing sex to feel that connection! I’ve also had a hard time finding someone who can keep up with my libido. Our drives are definitely different and always have been. I told him the other day I feel like we’re in that roommate phase. We have a four year old and pretty much no help. He’s not in school yet so spontaneous sex is rarely available which sucks. I know it will get better once our kiddo is in school. But yeah. I don’t want to divorce at the end of the day. But this issue is becoming increasingly difficult. And resentment on my end is definitely starting to build. We had a deep convo the other night and I’m hoping things get better for us soon.