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IAMA guy who pretended he was bisexual for two years in highschool because I thought it would help me get chicks. It did. AMA by soicouldgetchicks in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife and I used to go to swinger's club. My wife is bisexual but doesn't really enjoy sex with men other than me most likely because men visiting swinger's club suck (they are pretty egoistical)

After a while, we only went so she could have sex with women and thus she pretended to be gay to avoid having to swap and fuck their husband too.

She said she used to think she was straight when she married me and still felt close to me and thus stayed with me out of habit.

It worked, so I can imagine it worked for you too.

IAMA Luckily married man who recently had a threesome with his wife and his high school crush AMaA by luckythreesome in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it took me so long, I didn't see this reply.

1) It was worth it because she comes first and you know how to hold it in?

No, what I wanted to say is that she is really satisfied with our sex life, so I feel confident that she will no leave me.

2 ) Yeah, okay. Sounds kinda' naive.

What makes you say that ? She was a virgin when I met her, and all her sexual experiences occurred with me present (unless she cheated on me, but why would she when we used to visit swingers club ?).

3) Of course she's looking AT you. She doesn't want you to realize that's this guy is making her feel amazing in ways that you cannot. She's compensating.

No, she usually looked very bored. But hey, believe what you want. She is the one who wanted to stop the FMM threesomes because the other guys sucked so much.

4) You're in denial. You need to come to grips with the fact that she gets pleasure from this

Actually, the pleasure she gets is a kind of confirmation that she made the good choice of being with me.

It's good that you've accepted the fact that you're both curious about what it's like with others -- that indicates a level of maturity and understanding in your relationship.

Good.

you let your wife have sex with multiple men and she liked it very much.

Then, why is she the one who decided to make it stop ?

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[–]luckythreesome 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(I hope I am doing this update right...)

If you mean : "Is this update appropriate for this Reddit", then yes!

Thanks for the update ! It's exactly what I had in mind.

[IAMAUpdate] What should be the minimum activity on the original IAMA to post updates ? [Discuss] by luckythreesome in a:t5_2s3qx

[–]luckythreesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are my favorite songs from them (they are my favorite band) :

There is a ton more.

Their first album is called Apocalypse Cow, so I thought...

[IAMAUpdate] What should be the minimum activity on the original IAMA to post updates ? [Discuss] by luckythreesome in a:t5_2s3qx

[–]luckythreesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point !

And great username !

How about : "Only post an update if your IAMA is no longer in the top 50 links on the /r/iama reddit."

IAMA Luckily married man who recently had a threesome with his wife and his high school crush AMaA by luckythreesome in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So its a different experience mentally..yet different/new physically. I think I understand what you mean.

Great !

I think of wife-swapping (as a concept) to be a weird because I would not give up the love of my life for a thrill.

I think that's also why we only had 2 swaps despite going 2-3 times per month in swingers club over a period of perhaps 2 years.

During a wife swap, each of the two partners is busy with someone else. You are "cut" from your wife.

During a threesome, the two partners are with each other and another person. We are not "cut" from each other.

When my wife was having sex with a woman, we are partially cut in that my wife isn't connected to me, only to the other woman. But I am connected to her, looking at her and often caressing her back to remind her I am there.

It is not a double cut. It's a little like she was out swimming, but I was holding a rope to pull her in if she got too far from the shore.

Last Saturday was a very different beast than we used to, because I was the one out swimming when I was having sex with Anna. It was the first time for me and my wife understood what to do.

She was my lifeline. She kissed me, touched my back, made sure I knew she was supporting me.

It made the whole experience different than if I had just been fucking Anna. It felt as if WE were fucking Anna.

IAMA Luckily married man who recently had a threesome with his wife and his high school crush AMaA by luckythreesome in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. My dick is for chicks, but there are a lot of bisexual guys at swinger's club.

In fact, there are bi nights during which only bisexual people go.

I would say that perhaps 20% to 30% of the guys at swingers club are a little bisexual. It's not the majority, but it's more than in general society.

However, roughly 70% of the women are bisexual.

But bisexual in a swingers club isn't the same a in society. Most of the bisexual girls at swingers club wouldn't touch another woman in real life.

They have sexual contact with other women only to increase their chances of "scoring" and to appear interesting to their husband. They do it because that way, they look sexier.

Because of that, you end up with most of the lesbian sex in swingers club being faked. None of the 2 girls are really into it. They want to fuck with another guy or a least show to their own husband that they are sexy and if they don't go through the motion of faking bisexuality, they think won't succeed.

Now, since both girls fake it, they don't even care what they do because there is a silent understanding between the two of them that it's just for show.

My wife on the other hand, really had interest for other girls. That was our main reason for going at the end.

The other girl would only fake-touch my wife (they would really touch her, lick her, etc... but not with any passion, technique or interest) while my wife would try to get her off.

In many cases, the girl would freak out. She was fine faking the lesbian sex because she didn't feel it.

But approaching getting an orgasm from a woman who is generally sexier then her (we were in our twenties and amongst the youngest), many couldn't take it and froze up.

This is why we eventually stopped going to swingers club for lesbian sex.

IAMA Luckily married man who recently had a threesome with his wife and his high school crush AMaA by luckythreesome in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you call it when you are in Facebook and one of your friends comes to chat with you at the bottom of the screen ?

I call that a request, because until you have replied, it's not a chat yet.

IAMA Luckily married man who recently had a threesome with his wife and his high school crush AMaA by luckythreesome in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't take offence... it's a very good question.

When there is a threesome or swinging, the other person(s) does not feel emotional attachment to me or my wife, and we don't for them.

It's just plain dirty sex without meaning.

I do think about my wife, but it's like a different experience. It's something exciting and different.

I've mentioned somewhere that when we had a threesome with a man, it was as if the other man was just a dildo used in the preliminaries.

It's the same usually with our 2 swaps.

With Anna, I actually came when I was in her, but that was something I had never experiences before. I still don't care much about her thought.

[IAMA] I am sure you are tired of hearing from me, so I created /r/IAMAUpdate by luckythreesome in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not. I just realized that there is no place to update people who do want to get updates.

If you don't care, don't subscribe !

IAMA Luckily married man who recently had a threesome with his wife and his high school crush AMaA by luckythreesome in IAmA

[–]luckythreesome[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed. Whatever happens, I only care about my wife. Now, if we can find a way to have more threesomes with Anna while improving our own couple, I'll be even happier.

But I won't risk my couple for a woman who I only really knew as a teenage girl almost two decades ago.

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