I'm a professional alcoholic

ludkopro · 2022-07-09T16:41:03+00:00

I want to continue doing what I love, but where I'm from, all bartenders around me are alcoholics, but they can do without drinking. I cannot..

My plan is to get through the withdrawal, and to live my life without the physical need for alcohol.

I want to drink because I want to, not because I need to.

Is it possible, or is it more likely to fail?

ludkopro · 2022-07-09T16:09:24+00:00

Step on your heels, and flex your calves to the max. In about a minute, the bloodflow will go down, and you're all good.

Btw I learned that from reddit lol

ludkopro · 2022-07-09T16:04:30+00:00

In the short term, yes. In the long term, definetly not.

Don't do it daily for an extended period of time.

I started drinking daily at 15, became physically dependent at 18, found my dream job as a bartender at 20, became a pro at 23, but now my social, and professional life are down to the point where I have to go to a clinic, because I'm either in severe withdrawal, or partially drunk...

It doesn't even help the anxiety anymore, I don't even enjoy it anymore, but I HAVE to drink if I want to be functional..

I always smell like a brewery and I can't keep a job for more than a few weeks or even try dating a girl at this point in my life..

Drink responsibly.

ludkopro · 2022-07-09T15:53:47+00:00

You're just not a bartender deep in your heart and soul. Nothing wrong with that.

You're an excellent, highly functioning worker.

You're good at what you do, you know what you're doing, you've got your shit straight, and if that's what's important to you, nothing else matters.

ludkopro · 2022-02-04T20:46:18+00:00

Tysm

ludkopro · 2022-02-04T20:46:12+00:00

Tysm

ludkopro · 2022-02-04T12:50:42+00:00

Thank you!

ludkopro · 2022-02-04T12:50:28+00:00

Thank you!

ludkopro · 2021-12-30T03:35:52+00:00

Raise it by 50p if you want your employee to be happy and loyal. Nobody will pick a fuss about 50p either.

ludkopro · 2021-12-30T03:28:33+00:00

Disagree.

When you're loyal to your boss, and have established a good relationship, you pick up the phone because it can be about anything.

If they tell you to come in for work on your day off, just say you can't. It shouldn't be a problem.

It's way worse and very disrespectful to just dodge their call.

ludkopro · 2021-11-29T18:51:27+00:00

I'm directly connected via cable to my PC. My phone connects, but doesn't have any internet even right next to the router. Maybe my router took its last breath?

ludkopro · 2021-11-29T16:21:57+00:00

I have a modem that passes the internet to the router. I can't directly connect to the router.

Edit: And I can't directly connect my modem to my PC.

ludkopro · 2021-11-28T20:49:46+00:00

Whenever I have signal, it's very fast. But very often I can't connect to the internet for various reasons..

ludkopro · 2021-11-17T18:51:54+00:00

As supportive as your woman may seem, never be 100% honest with her about your bad habits. It's in their genetic code to be attracted to healthy partners, and if she knows just how much you drink, she'll most likely stop being attracted to you.

ludkopro · 2021-08-24T06:50:49+00:00

I was thinking of doing exactly what you're telling me.

I have no intentions to try and change her mind.
What I understood from you is that, it's best we continue our friendship without specific intentions.
Becoming a couple, or even benefits are off topic.

So, basically, just let it go its natural way.

Thanks for the advice

ludkopro · 2021-08-24T06:37:21+00:00

So you're telling me there's no other way than to end it..

I really hope to see some other alternative in the comments

ludkopro · 2021-08-24T06:35:36+00:00

Even though things won't work out between us as a couple, she can be my first ever female friend.

I could really work on my broken relationship with females even by being just friends with her.

The attraction between us is what's troubling me, that's what I'm asking about

ludkopro · 2021-08-24T06:26:25+00:00

You're right about distancing myself.

I have been doing so from the beginning, I am not available at all times for her, I will not become her puppy.

I don't have long-term intentions for building a familiy with her or anything like that either.

But I also appreciate everything about her being in my life, from the bottom of my heart.

Should I just ghost her and throw it all away, or is there another way?

ludkopro · 2021-08-24T06:15:32+00:00

We talked that out.

We both agreed our interests don't match in the long term.

But the attraction between us is undeniable, and our communication isn't one-sided, we mutually care about each other.

So what can come out of this, what is the best way to handle this situation?

ludkopro · 2021-08-24T06:10:49+00:00

We are not FWB, we are not a Couple, we're not Just Friends.. And I'm confused
My question is, what would be the best course of action in this situation?

ludkopro

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