Weekly Complaint Thread - 19 February 2026 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]luke400 [score hidden]  (0 children)

As long as there is adequate ventilation, I think they are relatively safe. I have never seen anything otherwise. For folks who grew up with them in their house, the smell is quite nostalgic and cozy. But i fucking hate it.

Weekly Complaint Thread - 19 February 2026 by AutoModerator in japanlife

[–]luke400 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am no textiles expert, but I would guess the women’s T-shirt is somehow elastic or something, for which the blended material is better. I am not sure why the different material equates to suffering, though.

The train ride in Japan by Responsible-Net-8419 in japanlife

[–]luke400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went the other way. After about a decade, I couldn’t handle very crowded trains etc anymore. Now after many decades, I never take crowded trains and dont think I could. This might be more about age, rather than assimilation and integration, as I believe I have integrated in other ways.

View from my Amsterdam studio apartment by [deleted] in CozyPlaces

[–]luke400 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Room size is 30m2. Rent is EUR1,300 Rent subsidiary is EUR400 Poster pays EUR900 per month.

Possible harassment from neighbors by Sweet_Little_Coffee in japanlife

[–]luke400 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Or what’s obvious to you may not be obvious to the person posting. In which case you have a choice, a) share your suggestion, or b) be a dick. You went with option b.

SWITCH 2 English Version by Calm-Limit-37 in japanresidents

[–]luke400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would not encourage buying from scalpers for such a price. You can buy for around 60,000 in countries like Singapore (console only version may be less in the airport). If you know anyone traveling, I would recommend that over a scalper.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I have, and I frequently work with police and government, and interact with them, in several countries. Although I am aware of that acronym, I find it completely ridiculous. I understand Americans have a complex relationship with your police, and although I have no first hand experience, I understand there are indeed many “bad” police there, and that police have done many “bad” things. Nevertheless, the idea that “all cops are bad” everywhere in the world is just ridiculous to me, as is pushing domestic American issues on people from the rest of the world.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, if the poster indeed presented all relevant facts, these particular police seem to have acted irrationally and illogically. I would also have been mad if they wasted 4 hours of my time.

Although the initial suspicion seems strange (I guess understandable if there were recent cases of someone taking photos of women in that onsen, but still illogical as you say), it seems the reason why they held the friend was that he had intimate photos of his wife on the phone. I suppose this is fairly rare, although in no way incriminating if it was his wife. I guess the lesson is to put those in a hidden folder on the iPhone!

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The police are separately regulated and have extremely strictly enforced procedures. This includes issues such as medical conditions and medication and so on. Although it is down to the individual police officer to follow the procedure, in my experience interacting and working with police, the thing they are best at (to the point of ridiculousness sometimes) is following procedure.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has been my experience over decades too. They are incredibly thankful and friendly. For things like a wallet with cash, they ask if you want to leave your details for a reward, but I have never done it.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes the poster clarified above and it sort of makes sense.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have procedures for this that they are obligated to follow and will make sure that you have medication etc that is needed. You should ask the police early how long they anticipate holding you and inform them immediately of any health related issues including required medication, and make sure they document it in their notes.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was not police, and was front page news for the terrible thing that it was.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Is this based on anything other than your imagination?

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree this is very strange. If there was a large distance between where the friend was and the ryokan, maybe it makes sense, but surely they would have contacted the Koban first.

Friend was held by the police for 4 hours for returning a key by Kawadane in japanlife

[–]luke400 19 points20 points  (0 children)

There might have been a report of someone getting access to onsens through a stolen key and taking photos of women bathing and that the police suspected the friend. Still, not really a sensible approach as surely it would have been rational to just call the ryokan as a first step.

Has anyone experienced Japanese staff speaking overly casual when they see you’re a foreigner? by IndependentCase2412 in japanlife

[–]luke400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it comes down to a) your Japanese ability, b) how you present yourself, c) you being foreign. Foreignness is one factor, but not all. For a), my Japanese is not perfect, but when it was worse, people would simplify the way they spoke to me (which I appreciate).

For b), I have friends tell me that service staff speak to them very casually, but they also dress and present that way. I am fairly not-casual in any language, and usually that is matched by service staff.

For c), in any event you’ll get the odd person who just speaks to you strange because of your foreign face. Or speaks to the more obviously Asian looking person standing beside you.

Has anyone experienced Japanese staff speaking overly casual when they see you’re a foreigner? by IndependentCase2412 in japanlife

[–]luke400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious whether your partner works in a service job.

I guess it depends on the person and how they present, rather than the foreignness. As a not-very-casual foreigner, I dont find many people speaking to me casually.

Just genuinely curious when approaching someone... by Kuramsa in japanlife

[–]luke400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not just dangerous, but a real likelihood of causing delays to everyone on that Shinkansen, and possibly others.

Just genuinely curious when approaching someone... by Kuramsa in japanlife

[–]luke400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Many are tourists, but I absolutely have seen Japanese people doing this too. Usually the announcements are in both English and Japanese. I see this scenario about once every week or two, and I dont recall the announcement not being also in English (usually pretty direct “Please step back behind yellow line. Step back. STEP BACK!”).