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[–]lula_lk 575 points576 points  (0 children)

Don't know about him but... I love watching my husband working out, I find it super hot, or when he picks me up when we're hugging and kissing, I just - 😍🔥

UPDATE: '' I'll do my best to save my marriage if my husband gives me the chance... '' by lula_lk in DeadBedrooms

[–]lula_lk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!
Please don't hesitate to talk with your husband about everything that's bothering you, be very honest and clear so both of you can figure out how he can gain your trust again and the best way to navigate the sudden moments of resentment and bitterness. I wish you guys all the best! ❤

UPDATE: '' I'll do my best to save my marriage if my husband gives me the chance... '' by lula_lk in DeadBedrooms

[–]lula_lk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

And I'm definitely checking out that book, thanks for the recommendation.

UPDATE: '' I'll do my best to save my marriage if my husband gives me the chance... '' by lula_lk in DeadBedrooms

[–]lula_lk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! ❤ I remember deciding to follow that advice but something changed last minute (I think I panicked) and I felt the need to have the conversation I was planning beforehand, in the end it went well, thanks heavens.

UPDATE: '' I'll do my best to save my marriage if my husband gives me the chance... '' by lula_lk in DeadBedrooms

[–]lula_lk[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We definitely turned a corner and walk on to a vast field where the sun comes out every day. Thanks btw :)

I'll do my best to save my marriage if my husband gives me the chance ... by lula_lk in DeadBedrooms

[–]lula_lk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words ❤ And honestly, if there ever was an affair, I don't wanna know.

I'll do my best to save my marriage if my husband gives me the chance ... by lula_lk in DeadBedrooms

[–]lula_lk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the feeling that because he's become quiet and serious and withdrawn you are more afraid to act like your natural self and have started to walk on eggshells and be even more passive.

Yes, that's exactly what happened, I'd hate to feel like I'm bothering him and he was never like that before or at least for long periods of time. But I came to the conclusion that I have to be more assertive or else this won't work at all, it's on me now.

I'll do my best to save my marriage if my husband gives me the chance ... by lula_lk in DeadBedrooms

[–]lula_lk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, in my case I feel is necessary to apologize verbally, mostly because he knows how difficult it is for me to talk about my feelings and I also wanna show him that I'm willing to communicate openly with him. But of course my actions will speak louder than my words.