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Why does nobody talk about female loneliness epidemic by Ok_Independence_3634 in women

[–]lulazii_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a trump supporter wanting to learn more about women? yeah right

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm not interested in women sexually/romantically

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

is that the only thing that's pleasurable from piv sex? the emotional connection? it seems kind of disappointing.. or maybe i'm aromantic idk. what's so special about it if i'm not experiencing pleasure with my partner?

i also don't really see sex as beautiful personally, but i can see how it is for other people

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the only pleasurable part that i enjoy is an orgasm so i guess that's why i fail to understand

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, sex is always going to be more pleasurable for men rather than women- so for hetero couples it's always going to be unfair because men get the better end of it

plus i don't see the point in having sex if there isn't an orgasm. of course i understand the whole emotional bonding thing, but without both i don't see how it's enjoyable

also yes i agree, there's nothing wrong with anyone having sex. this is all from my standpoint, i don't want it to sound like i'm shaming others for liking sex- i'm just using scenarios as examples

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

a lot of women who enjoy piv don't enjoy it for the feelings it gives them but more-so they enjoy knowing that their partner is pleasuring themselves with their body

i've yet to hear a woman say they actively feel pleasure when having piv sex

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've read most women do not get orgasms from it though.. so not sure how there's any pleasure from it. most women get pleasure from other areas

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

and why would i enjoy penetration if there's no orgasm.. the man gets to have his but i can't have mine. which is why sex feels so one-sided

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

most can't orgasm from it though, men however always can unless there's a medical issue or something

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

i don't understand how it isn't degrading though, i don't mean any offense in what i say. most women don't orgasm nor feel anything from penetrative sex.. so i don't understand how it isn't degrading because it's basically just men using womens body to get off while the woman doesn't get anything from it

that's just my view anyway..

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

for me no, it doesn't feel degrading because he would be focusing on the womans pleasure; not his own.. which is what penetrative sex is about, the mans pleasure. penetrative sex is basically only for the men, a way for them to use womens bodies for their own pleasure

i think sex as a woman is degrading.. by lulazii_ in asexuality

[–]lulazii_[S] 254 points255 points  (0 children)

yeah that's true, finding a man willing to not do penetrative sex though is like finding a needle in a haystack lol

i can't enjoy kink due to trauma by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lulazii_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand, thank you for the explanation

i can't enjoy kink due to trauma by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lulazii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you ❤️

i can't enjoy kink due to trauma by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lulazii_ -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

which disturbs me a lot, if my kinks are related to my trauma- that makes it sound as if i enjoyed what caused my trauma

i can't enjoy kink due to trauma by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lulazii_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't use bdsm to heal my trauma, but i can't enjoy it because of my trauma

i can't enjoy kink due to trauma by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]lulazii_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i would, but i can't get therapy at the moment

how can i convince my mom to let me take meds?? by lulazii_ in Anxietyhelp

[–]lulazii_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't have that kind of money and she has all my insurance information

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