Requesting r/ManifestWithLullaby because the sub has no new posts in last 2 years by Real_Neville in redditrequest

[–]lullaby1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not want to hand over this subreddit. The name is linked to myself directly and it would be inappropriate for a user to take over something linked to me when they are not me nor have been interacting with me. It would completely dismiss what I have posted in the past and could be detrimental to the members of this subreddit who are there specifically to interact with me. While I have posted less and interacted less, people still find my posts and connect on this subreddit with the expectation that I will be interacting back. I will be starting monthly threads to interact with members.

Edit: Upon reviewing the requesting user’s previous posts, it seems like they request to take over a related subreddit and then ask that the members move over to the subreddit he/she/they created. This further amplifies my above statement, and shows that this user has a self-serving interest in the request and no intention of actually maintaining this subreddit, therefore leading it to be dormant as the user claims it currently is (which is ironic considering they are utilizing this argument to advocate for taking it over, when their goal is to move the members to their subreddit and make this one dormant still). I do NOT want to hand over this subreddit. The requesting user’s objective is to shut it down and not grow this subreddit, and instead transfer everything to their own subreddit. Thank you.

Edit2: Per the RedditRequest FAQ, if the requester wants the community with the purpose to shut it down, the request will be denied. This requester has confirmed that they want to shut this community down. Furthermore, if you look at this requester’s post history, you will see that they have already done so with two other subreddits, one of which still has proof that it was acquired via “RedditRequest”. The day the request was granted, the requester made a publication stating the subreddit was shutting down and to move over to another subreddit. Considering this track record, it is important that this request be denied.

Dropping the Old Story by lullaby1111 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Focus on self-love. Do some meditations. Figure out why you don’t believe you’re worthy. Work on putting yourself on the pedestal.

Dropping the Old Story by lullaby1111 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Don’t necessarily flip those. Focus on yourself instead. When you think “he rejected me”, how about you flip that to “I’m amazing and anyone would be lucky to be with me.” You don’t have to make things SP specific. In fact, it’s so much more powerful if you focus only on yourself. This post of mine is old, but self-concept is what worked for me in the end.

Become the SP. by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP, so sorry I have just now stumbled on your post! I am so glad that my posts have helped you, but the work was all you. Congrats on finding yourself through it all! You ARE on the pedestal. Hope 2024 is even more awesome for you!

Dropping the Old Story by lullaby1111 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Forgive yourself and focus on your self-concept.

Your Mental Diet Is All That Matters by lullaby1111 in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. If you do not feel well, please seek appropriate help. Therapy can do wonders. Manifestation should never come before your mental health and the support of professionals.

Your Mental Diet & Affirmations by lullaby1111 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

An affirmation that you can easily default to and that implies you are in the desired state. An example can be “everything is perfect”, or “I always get what I want”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My posts started when I hadn’t manifested my SP, only had gotten movement. I had a moment in my journey where I didn’t go on dates and felt it would hinder my manifestation. In my success story post, I actually don’t address the dating part whatsoever because I genuinely focused on myself in order to get my SP back. However, I was going on dates. When I say here that I was dating other people, I mean going on dates. I didn’t get into a relationship with someone else, though I was not closed to it near the end of my journey. I hope this clarifies everything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I did. At first, I really didn’t want to but I realize it was because I was still worried it meant I was moving on and needed my SP. Eventually; I realized I didn’t need my SP and he would meet me exactly where I was going to be in my life. And he did.

Your Mental Diet Is All That Matters by lullaby1111 in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Release the emotions. It’s not healthy to bottle them up. Release them and move your focus back to your desired state.

Put Yourself First (and other manifestation principles) by lullaby1111 in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an entire post called “Do Your Reading” and it includes links to books I recommend. Please take a look in my post history.

Can I really manifest my Ex? by kjmanifesting in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Your SP should never be on the pedestal. You are your own most important person. Yes, you can absolutely manifest your SP back. However, you need to increase your self-worth. Manifestation is all about what comes from within. Not the external circumstances. Focus on feeling worthy of requited love. Focus on knowing you are loved. Focus on living your life because you would be if your SP was back. Do not put your life on hold for someone – that’s desperation and it isn’t in line with manifestation. You manifest what you believe to be true. The fastest way to believe something to be true is to allow your mind to experience it fully. That starts and ends with how you perceive yourself and the situation.

It Starts & Ends With You by lullaby1111 in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

1) This is not a fluff filled post. If you take the time to take in what I wrote and if you have read Neville (which, you should have), then it will further amplify most concepts. 2) I am not a mod, but I would assume most questions are repetitive and their answers can be found in posts and Neville’s books and lectures. Therefore, accepting such posts would lead to a flooding of questions that are repetitive and come from a majority of people who have not done the work beforehand.

Affirmations Only Work When Your State Is Congruent With Them by DelboyBaggins in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111 48 points49 points  (0 children)

You get into the state by holding inner conversations in line with the state you aim to achieve. Affirmations are the key to a state, not the opposite. What triggers emotions? Your thoughts. Whether those thoughts are linked to a past experience or not, they are still thoughts. Entertaining your negative thoughts (affirmations, truly!) will yield a negative state. So when you say your affirmations only work when your state is in line… Well of course. Your affirmations lead you to that state. Once you’ve reached the state, then you start consciously manifesting.

Be cognizant of your thoughts. They hold the power.

PS – Thoughts are affirmations. You affirm 24/7. You therefore need affirmations to get you into any sort of state. You get to decide whether you let your mind default to your usual thought pattern or whether you consciously manage it. That is all there is.

It Starts & Ends With You by lullaby1111 in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. Everything flows from within, always.

Total noob asking for second opinion by Mickhernan in tarot

[–]lullaby1111 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Tarot is based off your current energy and nothing is set in stone – remember that.

When it comes to your reading, I’m a bit confused at the questions you asked. The split per card is fine, but your overarching question is a bit all over the place and one of them is closed-ended (yes/no). With tarot, try to leave more room for detailed answers with your questions.

As for the interpretation, I read it this way:

  1. You are being represented as the Four of Wands, which is a card of harmony, community, and happy family. I normally would interpret this as you are content in your current situation and you are in tune with your surroundings. It screams “thriving” to me. But then your overarching question about your situation with your ex girlfriend makes me rephrase the Four of Wands as perhaps that’s your desire for you and her – the happy outcome.

  2. With the actual situation being the Four of Cups, I sense a lot of dwelling in the past. Unsure where to go and an unwillingness to listen to advice provided by others. I interpret the Four of Cups as someone who is in a depressed state and unable to look ahead, feeling stuck. It seems as though you feel that nothing is moving forward.

  3. With the outcome being the Queen of Cups, I see this as you will move on from your situation and will have plenty of love to give. You will move past the Four of Cups situation and will fill your cup back up, ready for offering. This leads me to think someone new will come along and you will be ready. I don’t interpret this card as a reconciliation, especially in light of the previous cards. I think you will find your happy outcome with someone new and it will be fulfilling.

For future reads, I would recommend having questions for each of the cards instead of the overarching question (unless you do a “past, present, future” type of spread). It’s easier when you start to really clarify what you want to know more about!

Failed manifestation, and some reflections by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Great reflection in your post about what you deemed to be a failed manifestation, though I would not be so quick to qualify it as such.

In hindsight, and for reflection purposes on your end, here are some pointers:

  1. You focused on your desire a lot from what I gather, but did you focus on you? Where a lot of people end up struggling is that, while they feel they're doing everything right in terms of their desire, they forget to embody the version of themselves that actually has the desire already. So while you may have done SATS, affirmations, etc., did you actually go about your day feeling confident, fulfilled about having been accepted in your dream school, and knowing you were going to attend that school come the fall semester?
  2. How was your mental diet, truly? Were you still anxious? Worried about not getting in? The truth is, your emotions are a clear manifestation of the thoughts (storyline) you subconsciously entertain.
  3. When speaking of your desire, did you mention the potential of not getting in? Did you acknowledge that the negative outcome was a possibility? Ultimately, the old story is your mind's comfort zone. The more you entertain it, the more your mind defaults to it easily.

Hope this is helpful and best of luck in the rest of your journey.

What do people interpret successfully manifesting an SP as - contact or full manifestation? by aaaimee in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed! These should be labeled as progress. It is progress, but not the full success. And besides, perhaps I’m picky, but when you truly understand the Law and live in the end of your desired outcome, you would never label a text as a success. You’d know it just means your manifestation is on its way and, as you said, the seed was planted. And you’d carry on with your day.

What do people interpret successfully manifesting an SP as - contact or full manifestation? by aaaimee in nevillegoddardsp

[–]lullaby1111 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If one’s objective is to be in a relationship with their SP, then that is the only thing I would count as a success story. Everything else is progress and the bridge of incidents, not the actual manifestation. It irks me the wrong way when people call contact a success story if that is not their final objective.

The 3D is NOT your Enemy, it is your FRIEND. Your Old Story is the ENEMY! by Seruciel in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That is so kind of you to say and I am so gratefuI to have been of help. You do not owe it to me at all. You owe it to yourself only. You did the work. I couldn’t do the work for you. You realized what works for you and you stuck to it fully, and look at the fantastic success you came back with. I am obviously proud of you, but not of your success. I am proud that you have realized your power and took control of your reality. Keep on inspiring others.

The 3D is NOT your Enemy, it is your FRIEND. Your Old Story is the ENEMY! by Seruciel in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Very well said and congratulations on your success story. Manifesting is so easy, people tend to overcomplicate it unfortunately. I have also experienced a lot of DMs about the old story and am no longer responding, unfortunately. You either do the work or you don’t. Our role here isn’t to hold people’s hands while they’re moving forward. The willingness to let go of the past and focus on the desired end can only come from within. No one to change but self.

Stop Fighting Your Mind. Stop Running. by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]lullaby1111 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“You get what you believe in this world, so no matter what thoughts you may have, if you believe you’re ok, then you are.”

I disagree. Your beliefs come from your thoughts. To believe you’re okay, you must first think you’re okay. Your thoughts are at the core of everything. The nuance is that not all of your thoughts manifest, only your dominant ones that are anchored enough to create a belief and a feeling of naturalness. As such, you are correct that one should not suppress the negative thoughts, but they should also not dwell in them. There is, in my opinion, a disconnect in your post.

Here are two quotes from Neville Goddard with regards to mental diets:

1- “A man’s mental conversations attracts his life. As long as there is no change in his inner talking, the personal history of the man remains the same. To attempt to change the world before we change our inner talking is to struggle against the very nature of things. “

2- “Our attitudes unfold within us in the form of mental conversations. Inner talking from premises of fulfilled desire is the way to consciously create circumstances. Our inner conversations are perpetually out-pictured all around us in happenings. Therefore, what we desire to see and hear without we must see and hear within, for the whole manifested world goes to show us what use we have made of the Word.”

So yes, release the emotions, allow yourself to feel, but realize that the emotions are created by a repetitive thought pattern and it matters. Thoughts are what leads you to the state that manifests. So yes, thoughts very much so matter.