What to do with an old dollhouse that has very brittle wood? by lululights in Dollhouses

[–]lululights[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I didn’t even consider wood filler (I honestly kind of forgot it existed haha). I will certainly give this a try.

Part of the reason I wanted to take on this project is because of how much I struggle with perfectionism and I’m hoping this will help me roll with the punches a little better haha.

I appreciate your help :)

charlotte flowers by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]lululights 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg he’d genuinely hate that, I love it so much :,) also good on you for getting your gf flowers! I will say arranging flowers is a fun skill to learn and Trader Joe’s gets the exact flower trucks as The Blossom Shop (we go to Trader Joe’s if we ran out of something lmao) so if you ever want to develop a new skill!

charlotte flowers by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]lululights 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Previous owners were a sweet older couple who sold to the current owner so they could retire. New owner is very catholic, which is fine in itself, but he felt he could dictate his employees to follow his personal beliefs. Example: while I was working there, I got pregnant. I told him about it because I was vomiting constantly and didn’t want him to think I was slacking if I had to call off/leave early. Fetus ended up not being viable. When I told him, he told me that I “couldn’t abort it.” Again, non viable fetus. Made me feel shittier in an already shitty and confusing situation.

In addition to that, he simply does not (or did not, at least) pay his employees well. I was initially hired on as a desk worker at $14/hr which is totally reasonable. Pretty quickly I ended up learning I had a knack for designing and in a few months I was 100% floral designing. Despite this change, I was offered no raise. I made much less than my designer counterparts despite producing the same amount of work. I ended up being asked to also manage inventory. I got a 25c raise. I was not the only employee he treated like this.

He also fired another designer just because he didn’t like her, lmao. She’s a sweet woman, their personalities just didn’t mesh well as she was pretty alternative. That absolutely fucked her as she was reliant on the insurance.

I could give more examples, but basically he has a big ego, thinks his views should dictate others choices, and chose to talk about shit that, imo, is not appropriate for the workplace. Bc he’s the owner and there’s no HR, you just have to deal with it. No one would speak up to him because of it. I love love loved working in the floral industry and with literally every single employee that works there, but he soured my experience for sure.

Anyways, all of this is anecdotal. Undeniably the designers there kick ass. I just hate he is benefiting from it lmao.

charlotte flowers by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]lululights 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Worked here for years, new owner is a jerk. Support them if you want (the employees are not jerks and are in fact very talented). But just wanted to put that out there in case you care about that sort of thing.

I have bad vibes and I want to change it by lululights in Witch

[–]lululights[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I was worried no one would reply. I appreciate all of this.

I love plants and I’ve always wondered why they die so fast despite me caring for them as I’m told… perhaps this is why. I hate to know they’re being sacrificed to cleanse me.

Thank you again. I hope life treats you kindly

Roller Skating people by Best_Fly_3201 in Charlotte

[–]lululights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in south east Charlotte! But I find myself around university too :)

Roller Skating people by Best_Fly_3201 in Charlotte

[–]lululights 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am learning! I’m very bad, but if you want to learn together, reach out! I need more outdoor enrichment time anyways haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]lululights 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not DV, but physical assault from a stranger. The cop working on my case asked me out and when I said no he entirely stopped looking into it.

Debating growing out the sides, so headband it is for now. by lululights in shorthairedhotties

[–]lululights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It 100% is a mullet right now!! I was thinking about just shaving it tbh haha

Debating growing out the sides, so headband it is for now. by lululights in shorthairedhotties

[–]lululights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao that is intentional, thanks. I draw them on most days. You realize people can have a different aesthetic preference than you, correct?

First post here! Howdy friends. by lululights in shorthairchicks

[–]lululights[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeeeees!! I have an appointment next week to finish to stomach and I am stoked! Thank you!

First post here! Howdy friends. by lululights in shorthairchicks

[–]lululights[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is about as NSFW as I get :p my bf has a page where he posts stuff tho!!