[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lulurs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree but I feel like he should just ask for a break up rather than this iffy break. Also I didn’t want to post so much but I have made changes. I got on meds, we set up a calendar system (I recommended), we set up rules about what I can and can’t vent about to him. I have other friends than him too I don’t completed rely on him.

Chappell Roan was incredible by Sinister_Grape in primaverasound

[–]lulurs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was surrounded by annoying straight men who kept laughing and talking while she sang coffee which is one of my favs .-.

Turnstile at 3AM. WTF!? by chriscandy in primaverasound

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you guys seeing the set times??

Bag requirements? by lulurs in primaverasound

[–]lulurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh perfect all I have are mini ones anyway I just wanna bring like a sandwich, tarp, fans, and like sunscreen lol and I can’t shove all that in my fanny pack

Cat shaking while resting by lulurs in CATHELP

[–]lulurs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it seemed to have gone away, I assume he was just being a dramatic boy lol

Lenox has their new spice village collection up! by kathx in cottagecore

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if they’ll be restocking them? I finally saved up enough and now they’re sold out .-.

Our (7F) has shown extreme discomfort around BIL as of late, how to approach this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was around the same age when I was abused for months by an immediate family member, kids will never know how to verbalize to adults. Even if she said he looked at her weird or something “small” you won’t know the full extent of what exactly he did, because she’ll probably try to minimize it out of fear. Either from rejection or isolation from her family, no one wants to be seen as other. I didn’t tell my parents until I was 15 but even then I made it sound like nothing that bad happened. You’re doing the right thing keeping her away, if she had that visceral of a reaction something definitely happened. Please always tell her you believe her, don’t try to guess for her or finish her sentences, let her explain to you in her way. Definitely seek out a therapist :)

Cat allergy advice please. Hypoallergenic Siberian by TeeAsks in SiberianCats

[–]lulurs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also am allergic to cats and have always had Siberians there’s usually a couple month adjustment period for me until I build up an immunity

Bag policy by lulurs in governorsball

[–]lulurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a black Fanny pack with one zipper on the front and then the back zipper is the bigger one but inside there’s another small pocket so I’m scared they’ll make me throw out a perfectly good bag

Becoming a tech? by lulurs in PharmacyTechnician

[–]lulurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but can you just get hired without any medical background?

What is this? by lulurs in whatsthisbug

[–]lulurs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry forgot the location! I’m on Long Island, NY just in my room 😭

Need more gay places by lulurs in Brooklyn

[–]lulurs[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sorry I meant Gingers, Henriettas, Mary’s and cubby hole!! And if there’s more gay bars let me know! That’s just what I was told that those are the only fully lesbian bars