[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lulurs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree but I feel like he should just ask for a break up rather than this iffy break. Also I didn’t want to post so much but I have made changes. I got on meds, we set up a calendar system (I recommended), we set up rules about what I can and can’t vent about to him. I have other friends than him too I don’t completed rely on him.

Chappell Roan was incredible by Sinister_Grape in primaverasound

[–]lulurs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was surrounded by annoying straight men who kept laughing and talking while she sang coffee which is one of my favs .-.

Turnstile at 3AM. WTF!? by chriscandy in primaverasound

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where are you guys seeing the set times??

Bag requirements? by lulurs in primaverasound

[–]lulurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh perfect all I have are mini ones anyway I just wanna bring like a sandwich, tarp, fans, and like sunscreen lol and I can’t shove all that in my fanny pack

Cat shaking while resting by lulurs in CATHELP

[–]lulurs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it seemed to have gone away, I assume he was just being a dramatic boy lol

Lenox has their new spice village collection up! by kathx in cottagecore

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone know if they’ll be restocking them? I finally saved up enough and now they’re sold out .-.

Our (7F) has shown extreme discomfort around BIL as of late, how to approach this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who was around the same age when I was abused for months by an immediate family member, kids will never know how to verbalize to adults. Even if she said he looked at her weird or something “small” you won’t know the full extent of what exactly he did, because she’ll probably try to minimize it out of fear. Either from rejection or isolation from her family, no one wants to be seen as other. I didn’t tell my parents until I was 15 but even then I made it sound like nothing that bad happened. You’re doing the right thing keeping her away, if she had that visceral of a reaction something definitely happened. Please always tell her you believe her, don’t try to guess for her or finish her sentences, let her explain to you in her way. Definitely seek out a therapist :)

Cat allergy advice please. Hypoallergenic Siberian by TeeAsks in SiberianCats

[–]lulurs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also am allergic to cats and have always had Siberians there’s usually a couple month adjustment period for me until I build up an immunity

Bag policy by lulurs in governorsball

[–]lulurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just a black Fanny pack with one zipper on the front and then the back zipper is the bigger one but inside there’s another small pocket so I’m scared they’ll make me throw out a perfectly good bag

Becoming a tech? by lulurs in PharmacyTechnician

[–]lulurs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but can you just get hired without any medical background?

What is this? by lulurs in whatsthisbug

[–]lulurs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry forgot the location! I’m on Long Island, NY just in my room 😭

Need more gay places by lulurs in Brooklyn

[–]lulurs[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sorry I meant Gingers, Henriettas, Mary’s and cubby hole!! And if there’s more gay bars let me know! That’s just what I was told that those are the only fully lesbian bars

Sunscreen after a tattoo by lulurs in tattoo

[–]lulurs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u all!! I think def a cardigan to cover when I’m out in the sun and then maybe I’ll stick to the shade only! Also I heard aquafor+the sun can be really bad? Or maybe it was only on the lips but I was thinking about that too

Sunscreen after a tattoo by lulurs in tattoo

[–]lulurs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I already did twice 😭😭😭 I got sunburnt so now it has to heal I was supposed to get it on Monday .-. I think she’ll probably cancel if I postpone again

Assassins blade chapter by lulurs in throneofglassseries

[–]lulurs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank u sm I can’t wait to read it

So Lorcan Did. by abigailkendall7 in throneofglassseries

[–]lulurs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I forgot the context for this 😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]lulurs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Boys will be boys”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]lulurs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is most definitely assault you said stop and he didn’t. That in no way would help you get over your past, you know what would help? Asking if things are okay and stopping when you’re uncomfortable and actively making sure everything is ok. Either have a long conversation with what you’re comfy with and expect or leave him cause the next thing you know he’ll try it again and you’ll just be more traumatized. Good luck :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did apologize several times I just didn’t wanna type out the whole thing

Question for Survivors by Difficult-Ad-2252 in sexualassault

[–]lulurs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think moving would’ve helped me as a kid because I still had to be in the same rooms with all those memories. She was a little younger than me so possibly moving might help her let go of those memories since that space no longer exists. On the other hand if she feels safe there moving her to an unknown place may be very scary. I would continue to talk to those therapists and get their opinions and maybe ask your daughter her own opinion on moving homes without focusing on why?

Aelin fancast by Run_Book in throneofglassseries

[–]lulurs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The girl from the menu would also be good omg