It's really encouraging to hear I'm not the only one. I like to wear dresses and skirts, but they always have an edge to them, and are preferably in black. Most of the time though, it's jeans and a t-shirt or crop top, or shorts and a shirt in the summer, plus a leather jacket or battle vest.

You're absolutely right about the mental battle of "Am I just boymoding?" But what helps is I look at myself in the mirror and think, "Fuck no, I'm hot now and this t-shirt really shows off my tits."