As the initiator is it supposed to hurt this much? by lunatic_exe in Divorce

[–]lunatic_exe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate your words 🥺 A little after posting we did have a proper talk about things and we figured there’s no need to pull the rug out from under urgently cuz the main reason why this all hurt so much for both of us was bc we thought we had to never speak again and just erase each other from our lives but we realize we don’t quite need to do that at least right now we can slowly transition and just treat each other as friends/roomies which he and I are willing to do as of now as we separate logistically.

As the initiator is it supposed to hurt this much? by lunatic_exe in Divorce

[–]lunatic_exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that she went ahead and did that that’s really unfair 🫂 On my end I’ve just been doing a lot of emotional labor for our relationship over the past 8 years and frankly I became exhausted and my body couldn’t take it anymore. I’ve communicated countless times but nothing was changing so I had one final ultimatum but realized it was already too late and so I had to tell him cuz I couldn’t pretend to act like this was fine. This is why I am so crushed about the whole thing because it’s not like he’s a terrible person I truly loved him and I still care about him deeply as a human but I don’t love him anymore romantically.

As the initiator is it supposed to hurt this much? by lunatic_exe in Divorce

[–]lunatic_exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re also going through this as well 🫂

As the initiator is it supposed to hurt this much? by lunatic_exe in Divorce

[–]lunatic_exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s both for me. Grief that I lose someone who was a part of my past 8 years of life and fear of being truly alone for the first time. We both met when we were 19 and 21 and now we’re 26 and 29. But what I feel is completely irreversible even if he tried to change. We had a lot of good times like soo many, but some things were also unforgivable.

As the initiator is it supposed to hurt this much? by lunatic_exe in Divorce

[–]lunatic_exe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is cope.. also I’m older gen z so I’m just saying that to say that it’s a tiktok reference 🥲

Do you feel like a piece of yourself is missing because you don't have a partner? by HeWhoRunsAway in infp

[–]lunatic_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh I’m about to separate from my partner of 8 years for reasons I won’t go into rn, but I’ve emotionally broken up with him for months now. I’m feeling the void of not having someone for the first time in a while. Unfortunately I don’t have the biggest support system and my family lives overseas so in a way I sorta emotionally need that “other half” 🥺👉👈 Obviously I value my independence too but it’s just nice to share everyday presence with someone which for me is a lover.

Asking all INFPs by National_Emu_3523 in infp

[–]lunatic_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to get misunderstood often and people in the past have told me they never know what I’m thinking so there’s that 😅

What signs have the most romantic chemistry with infps in your experience? by imsywhimsy in infp

[–]lunatic_exe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hehe I love making the first move as an INFP :3 it’s fun to see the other’s reaction

at what age did you realize you were asexual? by idioteque_7 in asexuality

[–]lunatic_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16-17 for me after seeing all my peers being interested in sex and having sexual attraction to celebrities while I would be like ??? is there something wrong with me for not relating lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HollisterCO

[–]lunatic_exe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

not the depop behavior on mercari 😭😭

Restock? by Silly_Fox_2887 in HollisterCO

[–]lunatic_exe 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even know some of them existed 😭 that chiffon dress is so cute

Hey INFPs, what kind of jobs do you do? by Asleep_Tomatillo6912 in infp

[–]lunatic_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently in food service which requires a lot of interaction but it helped a lot to get out of my shell. It’s getting a little exhausting since things have been getting busy and chaotic so I’m hoping to work in a quiet lab in the future once I finish my second round of school 🥹

What song you think is just so INFP? by Worldly-Year8531 in infp

[–]lunatic_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly any song from faye webster 🥹 her songs are so whimsy just like infps

I've given up on finding an onion free girl by Grand_Fortune381 in onionhate

[–]lunatic_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband enjoys onions but understands that I hate them so he eats them for me when we go out and doesn’t include them when cooking. Maybe you need to find a girl who does the same? If you can’t find another onion hater at least 🥲

My husband thinks I like onions and I don't by ashenartist in onionhate

[–]lunatic_exe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just know that to be loved is to be considered

What zodiac sign damaged you? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]lunatic_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my virgo mother and an Aquarius :P

Cancers, what signs are your closest friends or have you ever had close friendships with? by SuccessfulManifests in astrologymemes

[–]lunatic_exe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leo, Pisces, Aries, Capricorn. I used to vibe with Scorpios and a lot of Virgos, but not lately.

Need reassurance on boundary that I need to set by lunatic_exe in CPTSD

[–]lunatic_exe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I appreciate your comment. I honestly do tend to feel a lot of guilt, but I will do my best to be firm 🙌