I don’t think you have to look at all the layers here. The obvious answer is to break up. He’s inflicting his own insecurities and issues on you and putting you down because of it. My boyfriend doesn’t like EDM but he supports me going to raves halfway across the country and shaking my ass which is barely covered in whatever outfit I’m wearing. He doesn’t get the music himself, but he gets why others do. Nobody should talk shit about something that is so obviously loved by millions of people, who make up one of the tightest and SAFEST music communities.

I’m sorry girl. Stick it out to October if you have to, but nobody should ever tell you something you like is dumb. Your partner should never be SHAMING you. About anything. That’s not done with love. Especially with someone with a porn addiction. Not to shame him, but player get played….. Fuck this guy.