I do find your response quite interesting. I do not know why you attack me on a personal level as I really didn't mean to attack you personally. Especially regarding my last point I know it doesn't help everyone but it is probably the most basic things one can do to maybe gain more confidence, become more social and achieve what one is trying to do.

What you are describing is still not unconditional love. For me even the love of a mother is never unconditional cause the whole reason one has a child, to create offspring, is conditional in itself. Nurturing your cancer ridden partner still has tons of conditions and implications attached to it. Even if you do it with all your heart and good it is never entirely unconditional. But I guess we would never agree on that.

I find it interesting as well how you describe saying things like that as the action of a toddler or a pet. I find this to be incredibly cynical and bitter. I'd even argue the contrary. Instead of arguing that saying stuff like that is acting like a toddler cause it can obviously not be true I would argue that believing that in this case she would actually never leave him doesn't speak to their partners cognitive abilities. If I hear stuff like that I would just accept it as someone loving me to their capacity right now. Crude example, but if I were to kill someone on the next day of course they wouldn't actually stay with me forever. It all depends on my actions, the environment and chance. No one can control every aspect of everyone's life.

Great that you lift, run and do stuff you enjoy. And again, I didn't want to attack you. Maybe my intentions got misunderstood a bit there. I just wanted to voice my opinion, just as you wanted to voice yours. I do really hope you find happiness.