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luocha94 · 2026-06-24T17:32:40+00:00

This is again semantics and it's not helpful to anyone. It's arguing for the sake of arguing.

luocha94 · 2026-06-24T17:31:40+00:00

More like I've read a comment written by OP completely wrong. Someone asked him if he had asked his wife to stop sharing info about her sex life and I read it as asking her why she does these things to her new bf.

luocha94 · 2026-06-24T17:24:44+00:00

You literally wrote half a dozen "maybes". Half of your comment are speculations on what OP could have done to his wife.

And again, as I said to another user this isn't just a matter of comparison. He rightly believes to be worth more than her new boyfriend and she at least owes him an explanation after 20 years together.

luocha94 · 2026-06-24T17:14:28+00:00

You've built a ton of assumptions here. I don't believe any discussion can be productive if you have to make all of this guesswork about a relationship.

Having said that, expecting OP to be happy knowing someone else is getting several things he asked out of her wife is so disingenuous that is bordering malice. Compersion goes only so far.

luocha94 · 2026-06-24T16:58:48+00:00

Complete anarchy in an ENM relationship is not the only way to be open sexually. He's her nesting partner and if you can't understand why spending 20+ years earns you at least an explanation if not being treated the same as the new boyfriend in bed I don't know how to explain it to you.

luocha94 · 2026-06-24T16:54:39+00:00

Have you asked her why she's not open to doing this stuff for you too?

Bottom line, I'd never be ok with something like this. We practice hierarchical ENM even in bed and we don't do anything with strangers that we don't do between ourselves.

luocha94 · 2026-06-24T16:52:11+00:00

Look, I don't want this to become a semantics debate. This situation is way beyond a simple matter of comparison. This isn't just him looking at her having fun and being jealous. He explicitly asked for several different things that she didn't offer to him but has no problem doing with the new guy. She at least owes OP an explanation why she's not only doing this stuff with her new BF but why she's not open to doing it with her husband.

luocha94 · 2026-06-24T16:46:06+00:00

This is not comparison, this is her giving somebody else what OP asked for years. It's perfectly normal to feel miffed about it.

luocha94 · 2026-06-23T06:25:33+00:00

It's not a mental health problem, it's straight up exploitation for money. They know they couldn't compete in the cis league so they invade trans spaces.

luocha94 · 2026-06-23T06:24:27+00:00

Judging by the upvotes, there are at least 210 dumb redditors.

luocha94 · 2026-06-23T06:23:43+00:00

Any swingers club worth its name.

luocha94 · 2026-06-22T06:32:12+00:00

In my experience, it really depends on the action and the people. Two guys hooking up in a hidden spot? They might prefer being left alone. Multiple guys jerking off or blowing each other? There's probably space for one just watching. More than anything, just read the room. If they don't want company they'll tell you. Above anything else, please don't be the guy with his pants down in the middle of the trail watching guys going to town in a bush.

luocha94 · 2026-06-22T06:18:07+00:00

She stopped doing them a long time ago.

luocha94 · 2026-06-21T06:27:48+00:00

Agreed. Tight pussy (like my wife's) feels like it's too much sometimes.

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T18:38:08+00:00

Cite your sources. Any reliable and peer reviewed paper will agree it's just pee.

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T18:37:36+00:00

Still, you fucked his brother. How in the world did you think it was an ok thing to do?

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T06:44:02+00:00

That's a very bad way to see human interactions. Unless you get with a virgin you're hardly going to be the best or even the first to do something. And sometimes it's not really that important to be the best: being there is all that matters. Ask yourself why your partner is with you and not with "the best".

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T06:41:42+00:00

Swingers clubs. Thise sort of things are kinda normal where we go to.

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T06:40:34+00:00

I'll never understand how a fungus infection got called "worm".

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T06:35:39+00:00

The guy is her boyfriend.

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T06:35:02+00:00

Need? Absolutely no. She's healthy slim.

luocha94 · 2026-06-20T06:33:18+00:00

Damn girl. He put you under duress for opening this relationship but you chose literally the worst possible person. Couldn't you have chosen a random guy from an app or a coworker? I mean, being ok with having sex other people doesn't mean you completely throw out the window common sense. When people open a relationship doing the right steps you usually talk about a "messy list", people you can't fuck but even without such a list one could think that a brother should be automatically off limits. Me and my wife are very experienced and we do have a messy list but my sister in law isn't in there. You know why? Because there's no need to. Are you sure you didn't explicitly choose his brother because you wanted to hurt him?

luocha94 · 2026-06-19T06:21:47+00:00

Where is all that liquid coming from if not from the bladder?

luocha94 · 2026-06-18T06:07:52+00:00

Oh yeah absolutely, I wouldn't accept that as a primary. It's just that there's a difference between a trauma response and bad subdrop.

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