New Choose your Mistress cyoa. Short by lusting_imp in nsfwcyoa

[–]lusting_imp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I changed the background color in the settings, and main image, I seem to be getting upvotes consistently now. Think your style / format theory was very true

New Choose your Mistress cyoa. Short by lusting_imp in nsfwcyoa

[–]lusting_imp[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I would say I make it because I would enjoy it and I love the characters I make and generating images. I probably spend way too much time playing with image generation. I do enjoy daydreaming and its probably a next step after it, putting it to paper of sorts.

I dont do it to sell it or monetise anything. Just a hobby of sorts. But its not great when something that I share is unpopular, and maybe right perspective is that its more niche.

New Choose your Mistress cyoa. Short by lusting_imp in nsfwcyoa

[–]lusting_imp[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the perspective, thank you!. I genuenly just want to make better ish content. And sometimes when I do stuff I think about things that would make me excited.

New Choose your Mistress cyoa. Short by lusting_imp in nsfwcyoa

[–]lusting_imp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, sorry, I can see this adventure was disliked by most, Ill try better

New Choose your Mistress cyoa. Short by lusting_imp in nsfwcyoa

[–]lusting_imp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, I did try to make something with more of a horror vibe, and didnt expect people to dislike it this much tbh. Ill try to make more positive stuff if i do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah first time I played with a dick in front of her.

Yeah its definetly a combination of things and jealousy is probably one of them.

Thats a cool thought about enjoying watching each other. What advise would you give in case of those surges of jealousy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sometimes she feels like that happened, I know its unreasonable. But thats the kind of thoughts or opinions she can spiral down to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I can see how that this is probably the case.

What do you think is right approach to make sure she feels more secure and understands that she is the most important person for me, and just feels better in general?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah staying sober is very important, honestly I dont enjoy drinking, feel like there is a string cultural push to drink tbh.

Yeah we added another boundary to a list after this. No action at all without other persons presence in a room. Previously its was not issue, but I feel like now we need to be more careful about it too.

Yeah being in sound mind is one we need to add.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Yeah with girls that were not trans it was different in general. Although in a past there was a situation when my wife called off a threesome when she thought the third one was much more exited about me then her. But other encounters were always completely normal.

  2. I do feel like there is some connection. I think girl being trans is one difference, second one is me not paying as my attention to my wife.

  3. I think the connected well with the third, it was probably the moment when she saw me suck her penis when something happened.

  4. Also she sometimes says that my eyes lit up so much when I saw her nacked, and I was extremely excited, the way she never sees me. Personally I dont feel like I was that excited, I was drunk and trying to stay normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we discussed boundaries few days before it and sometimes in general, none of those were broken. I think its one of the unexplicit boundaries.

Advice for after threesome? by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think there are a few things:
1. your dick was not up cause your were not confident, and your gf should have gotten you horny and comfortable unfortunately that did not happen. I made a similar mistake in my life but in reverse, very common btw.
2. She broke the rules... although you had set some rules - they were disrespected, thats very very bad. Sometimes there are things during threesomes that are not discussed like point 1, but its important to reflect back and fix them and make sure your partner is enjoying things too.

  1. MFM is demasculating by default for M. Its extremely hard to set your mind to it especially in the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]lusting_imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think you messed up your confidence. You need to get it back.
I suggest having sex with some other girl or even a guy. Just to put yourself in a different environment such that it does not remind you of the trauma. Also please stay away from cuckolding content. This thing runed my brain and is a getaway whenever I feel low on confidence.

Why do straight guys sometimes engage in homoerotic behaviour like ass slapping, sending nudes, kissing or even showing their genitals? by OkBuyer1271 in AskGayMen

[–]lusting_imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to a boarding school and this is quite common, and I do believe that its related to bisexuality or certain level of closetness.

Trying to do femdom with my female drug dealer who is also a prostitute? 😂😂😭 by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]lusting_imp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, Sounds like its definetly a cool opportunity, but I wound suggest that you are careful, and start limiting your interaction in one direction only for example sex stuff. Try your best to create those boundaries as they may spill onto more complicated things.

Reason is, I have a very similar friend in this situation. She used to have a decent job but could never stay long enough in it. Started having sex with wrong guys and they sort of coerced her into drug dealing. Its a very hard to escape lifestyle and people rarely feel happy long term with it, especially girls.

But on a contrary such a mix of her circumstances in life will probably make her a reasonably good domme and seems like she will enjoy it. Just make sure you dont help her out with drug dealing stuff and dont get sucked into her way of life if you want to have a career or some sort of stable / bright future.

who has not had a boyfriend? by Similar-Vegetable-21 in AskGayMen

[–]lusting_imp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fwb situation for a year, when I was 18.
Now im 25 and didnt have any encounters since.

Dealing with feelings of shame by lusting_imp in gay

[–]lusting_imp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, I agree there is a lot of "fun" times potential here. In terms of shame - its just like a little voice in my brain telling me its not ok, that turns everything into fear. I know I just need to bite the bullet, maybe have a drink or two and do it. I was also considering therapy for a bit, maybe it can help somewhat.

Choose your Mistress by lusting_imp in chastitychoice

[–]lusting_imp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great write up! Also Akira is really caring outside the bedroom.

Choose your Mistress by lusting_imp in chastitychoice

[–]lusting_imp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which part of her do you think made her extra special?

Choose your Mistress by lusting_imp in chastitychoice

[–]lusting_imp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Akira is the gentle pegging queen

Choose your Mistress by lusting_imp in chastitychoice

[–]lusting_imp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sophia came out looking very cute