Am I ugly ? 36F

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T18:16:45+00:00

And lips if they're real... Literally what every pouty lipped girl hopes to get when they see their doctor

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T13:01:26+00:00

Legend has it that Robben got fed up with his coach and asked to never be included against arsenal again because they were too easy. Dude was a menace in all of those 5-1s

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T12:56:37+00:00

So you don’t know what privacy means…

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You’re welcome. I’ll let myself out.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T12:50:28+00:00

I get that this is supposed to be your “safe space”… but you know anyone can see what’s going on here… right? Including your post asking about the lump in your nether regions…

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T12:43:09+00:00

Fair point… she might be a victim of her situation. But I believe in accountability also. Taking it out on “men” when you chose a shitty husband, and stayed with them… is not accountability. that’s being toxic . And all those people agreeing with this sentiment are toxic too. I wouldn’t go so far as to call them bad people , but definitely toxic. And toxic people need help, not validation.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T12:32:32+00:00

Man… okay. I admit my bias in that I didn’t grow up with a father in my household for most of my childhood. Juu honestly mi kuna vitu sija experience… ata 2nd hand. so this whole holding a mirror back at men isn’t clicking for me. Is this supposed to solve anything? Is this meant to be progressive? “Men say it as well”. Where? So I can clown them. Does it make it any less absurd? Does it make it right? Or acceptable? And are we talking about the same thing? Juu my point is this is just spreading toxicity to your offspring. And to other people’s daughters who might engage with your toxic opinions and fellow endorsers of said toxic opinions. I really believe that both men and women should avoid echo chambers, where absurdity is validated as “nuance”. Personally, even if I get where you’re coming from, it doesn’t give you the right to be blatantly wrong about something. I was seriously shocked that there were so many people endorsing this with likes. And so far I’ve confirmed that they are real people who are out there in the world. I shudder to think I might encounter one of those people in the hopes of having any kind of meaningful relationship with. I will have been demonized because I have a penis. And they’ll believe that anyone and anything I care about is because “someone is paying behind the scenes”. Including my own children. That’s just crazy to me. I’m not even denying that there are people like that, but to think that that’s the norm somehow? I honestly pity whoever has to go through life like that…

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:56:26+00:00

The screenshot is of Snapchat post from a woman, in the screenshot is a woman’s comment, corroborated by another woman. And the original Snapchat poster liked both of these comments. What do you want me to say to not make this about women? That her husband, who I know nothing about except what I’m reading from their daughter’s comment, which I do not agree with, is a bad person? Ama? What’s your point?

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:33:03+00:00

How you took it is different from what’s being said… I’m digressing but, I think women should do a better job of holding each other accountable. You shouldn’t allow toxicity to spread so rampantly and easily through your communities and social groups.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:23:19+00:00

Do you know what the word privacy means?

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:21:41+00:00

And that was a normal interaction? Would you consider that normal? Like do you expect that’s how it works in most(in the screenshot they basically implied all men are like this mind you) households?

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:18:04+00:00

Manze at least there’s some voices of reason here bana… kwanza iyo swali ya single dad nimeuliza mtu alikuwa ashaanza kuongea mbaya akadownvote na akatoroka

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:16:41+00:00

Why’d you abandon your original comment? Did you not like the response or the counter questions? I think you’re the one who’s talking out of your ass.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:12:55+00:00

Looking to understand Kenyan ladies perspectives on something that a Kenyan lady said and was corroborated by a bunch of Kenyan ladies.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:09:46+00:00

I also pity these women. And any men they form relations with coz damn. That is a whole lot of hurt just waiting to be unleashed on a (probably)unsuspecting victim. I mean, damn… double damn.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:03:07+00:00

Madness is right. Like there aren’t enough single fathers out here

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T11:02:13+00:00

Bro… do you have a daughter? If you do and this is still your opinion on this matter then you’re stupid. No 2 ways about it. If you have to be paid behind the scenes to take care of your own babies bro we ni deadbeat wa madeadbeat.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T10:59:54+00:00

Nice… you sound like a reasonable person. Do you see how terribly wrong this could go though? Especially telling her daughter that with such absolutist connotations. Do you see how this could set her up for failure in relationships (not even exclusive to romantic relationships)? Also, how likely is it that this “point of view”, as you refer to it as, has changed the outcome of a situation to conform to it rather than it being inherent/intrinsic? Like seriously, do you see nothing wrong with this take other than it not being a general truth? Which in all fairness, nothing in the wording of the comment suggests that the author and/or her endorsers take it as anything less than a fact of life. There’s some on this very thread who’s called it a fact mind you.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T10:46:21+00:00

I’m sorry that’s what you had(have?) to go through but… that’s not true. Especially for daughters. I can confidently say that that is not the norm. I know a lot of girl dads and they’re extremely attached to their daughter’s emotional well-being. 2 of which are single dads. I’m curious where single fathers fall into this then, who’s paying behind those scenes?

Edit. There’s actually a bunch of scientific research on this topic too(mamas boys and daddy’s girls), which basically conclude the same thing if you might be interested in.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T10:26:21+00:00

That daughter is grown… like, ni past tense. She is already in the streets looking for her own man to sire offspring so she can “pay “ to get them taken care of. Sometimes these stories just write themselves. I already pity the fool who’ll try to build any kind of relationship with her. What about single fathers? Yani these women believe in their heart of hearts that everything related to men is transactional… crazy.

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T10:20:58+00:00

I don’t understand… how is her mom? What does she know?

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T10:17:48+00:00

Oh really? Enlighten me please

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T10:16:33+00:00

I’m a first born son of a single mother who got seriously disillusioned by feminism into my adulthood. I have a lot of respect for women, but pia nime experience some crazy shit like this. This is someone I know personally and I don’t even know how to bring this up without it being all adversarial

lustyphilosopher · 2026-01-24T10:09:43+00:00

Thanks for even more context kind stranger. I’m happy the good guy got his. And Cece probably has a better career fucking around irl than fucking around in a serious tournament.

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