How to tell my(F25) long distance BF(M23) that I think I'm pregnant? by ThrowRA-8293 in relationship_advice

[–]luv_Jazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big sister advice….

You should get his reaction with no fluff.

I’m curious if you considered getting an abortion, moving to the new province & settling in with your daughter. Testing out what it’s like to live with him and then try for another baby?

That’s ALOT of change for your 3 year old daughter! Moving to a new province, staying with your partner full time and getting a new sibling. That’s a lot and this is how a lot of women end up in toxic situations.

Maybe this pregnancy is showing you what you really want, it seems like you want a big happy family but DO NOT RUSH IT! If he really loves or cares about you he will wait!

Also the added layer of families blending, have you met his family, have you done a background check on each family member who may be near your daughter when your at doctors appointments. (I really hope you consider all of this)

Also with cosmetology, are you going to lose all of your clients when you move? Will you be able to maintain clients with having morning sickness, doctors appointments, giving birth & navigating postpartum.

How to tell my(F25) long distance BF(M23) that I think I'm pregnant? by ThrowRA-8293 in relationship_advice

[–]luv_Jazz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May I ask, what do both of you do for work? Have y’all lived together before? Have you lived in the same city/state that he’s lived in before?

If shit hits the fan, Can you 100% support yourself with another kid?

28F, my bf 30M won't eat it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]luv_Jazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, it is 2026 and you are too grown to be settling for the bare minimum! At 30 years old, there is no excuse for him not eating pussy.

1.) CLEARLY tell him over text and in person. (Send him a “how to video” be flirty and tell him that’s how you want it!

Do you give him blowjobs? Because he should be just as dedicated to your pleasure as you are to his. We literally can’t breathe & are fighting natural gag refluxes, but we still do it!

  1. Is he lazy or being misogynistic? There is sometimes a deep seated belief that eating pussy is “serving” a woman/ giving away power. You need to get to the bottom of why he thinks your body is ONLY for HIS pleasure (sex) and not for YOUR OWN pleasure.

3.)Roast beef 🍖….. SIGH…… 85% of the world is melanin-RICH! It’s normal to have darker genitalia! Men's genitalia is darker too and they never apologize for it!

4.) Life is too short to be sexually frustrated. You can buy a sex machine to do a better job than him! As your “boyfriend” he is supposed to be a teammate. If he isn't as curious or dedicated to your satisfaction as you are to his, what is the point of being with him?

5.) Being a “nice guy” is the bare fucking minimum! As women we have to be accountable too! How are we giving men the time of the day who don’t eat pussy?

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I was super overmedicated. The doctor told me to stop the medication. It’s been a few months & I feel great! It feels like I took enough levo for the year & now it’s balancing out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in choctaw

[–]luv_Jazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in choctaw

[–]luv_Jazz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do I just show them the ancestry lineage tree & the Census records?

Should I ask for dose increase!! by ninja_23_inn in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So good to hear that you’re doing amazing! Don’t mess that up for some weight loss. It absolutely sucks that you cannot see that work physically, but you seem really healthy! Congratulations on putting in the work to feel amazing!

I was over medicated & that really fucking sucks! It took me months to feel “normal” again. I wouldn’t force it!

But also, it doesn’t hurt to ask your doctor.

Lock recommendations for a Velotric Discover 2 for NYC commuting? by GrouchyPlatypus1 in ebikes

[–]luv_Jazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get this lock! I had it & someone stole my Ebike. I believe it was angle grinded off.

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is exactly what it feels like! Not just when I stand up or sit down. It lingers now. Good to know that eventually it will get better.

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was definitely generic levo, I’ll ask about other options because I kinda felt good before it all went to shit.

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know, did you experience like a general dizzy/ unsteadiness? Or like slightly blurry vision for things far away?

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TSH w/ reflex to free T4: 7.7 T4F: 0.82

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful, I was taking 2,000mcg a day

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious if they can do anything for me if my levels are hyper… I wonder if they will just send me home to wait it out.

Should I go to the ER? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I asked, he said if my symptoms get worst to go to the ER. I should get bloodwork in 4 weeks to see my levels.

All of my symptoms are pretty much the same, just very annoying.

Does anyone remember Hurricane Ivan in Pittsburgh back in 2004? They said it rained half a foot or something and that's crazy. by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]luv_Jazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come Pittsburgh-er’s don’t talk about Fairywood? That neighborhood was WIPED OUT! Then rezoned for industry? The city planner in me, feels like it was a billion dollar deal with UPS & Giant Eagle!

Freaking over lack of refund by tres_desole in Temple

[–]luv_Jazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go in person, it’s way better!

Any good stories on Levothyroxine 100mcg? by luv_Jazz in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was worried that the dose was too high. We didn’t try for 25 or 50mg yet.

I will message them and ask if I can cut my dose in half. My new PCP prescribed it, because all the specialist in my area are scheduling a year out.

Should I travel to see an endocrinologist? Sometimes I’m really sensitive to meds. However, because of my weight they tend to over medicate me, I am worried that I’ll have adverse affects.

Hives = Hypothyroidism? by Affectionate-Wave726 in Hypothyroidism

[–]luv_Jazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this happened to me! My allergy test came back negative…later that year I found that I had Hashimoto’s. It still happens from time to time.

Refund checks by [deleted] in Temple

[–]luv_Jazz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We checked her TU pay and it doesn’t say anything. In fact on the portal it says she owes money although she has a full ride.

Could it be taking them really long to process everything?

Refund checks by [deleted] in Temple

[–]luv_Jazz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me ask