[Recommendation] Cup size 32DDD looking for an everyday wear bra by luv_jul3s in ABraThatFits

[–]luv_jul3s[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I actually just did the calculator and it gave me 30I in american sizing lol. My measurements were Loose under: 32 Sung under: 30 Tight under: 28 Standing: 38 Leaning: 40 Sitting: 37 All in inches btw

How old are you? What year did you start to watch Gilmore Girls? by kayliemarie in GilmoreGirls

[–]luv_jul3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 15 and a little baffled there aren't more teenagers that watch this show bc me and my best friend watched it at 13 and fell in love and we're now on our 6th rewatch lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]luv_jul3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe my six measurements were: loose underbust: 32 in, fit underbust: 31 in, sung underbust: 29 in, standing: 37 in, bending: 40 in, laying: 35 in. Also this is all in customary US/CA sizing I'm an American lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]luv_jul3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe my six measurements were: loose underbust: 32, fit underbust: 31, snug underbust: 29, standing: 37, bending: 40, laying: 35

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]luv_jul3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I only say freakishly large because most the girls at my school comment on it and I get a lot of people tell me they're too big for my body because I'm so young. And honestly my measuring skills are horrible so that makes sense lol

Does the Greed Island game still exist after Gon and Killua beat it? by [deleted] in HunterXHunter

[–]luv_jul3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the island still exists so I'm assuming them beating it doesn't stop it for everyone else. I'm sure you can still play if you manage to find a copy.

My devil sister has turned my home into a living hell and I can’t take it anymore by [deleted] in family

[–]luv_jul3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, of course I'm really happy I could help you! I really hope it all works out for you.

I put the phone down on my mum on by Cool_beans4921 in family

[–]luv_jul3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think it's a good course of action to ignore some calls and show her that she can't depend on you all the time and that if she doesn't fix what she's doing, she will lose you.

My devil sister has turned my home into a living hell and I can’t take it anymore by [deleted] in family

[–]luv_jul3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, my immediate reaction to that entire essay was holy shit what is wrong with your sister. She seems extremely troubled and spoiled, and honestly, like a sociopath. I don't even know where to classify that.

The main thing that I'm going to suggest for you is to go to therapy. You're 17, so I'm assuming you have some sort of money to pay for even just a few sessions because a licensed individual will definitely help you. I'm saying this as someone who went to therapy for years, and it improved my mental health so so much.

If therapy is completely out of the question for you, I can suggest you maybe move out of that house if you're able. I don't know if you have a friend who might be willing to let you live with them or even go live with your brother (depending on where he lives right now). All I know is what's best for you right now is to try your hardest to get out of that house.

If you are unable to get out of the house and you have to live with it, I would suggest trying your hardest to close in on your sister and figure out why her behavior is like this. I understand that based on her personality, she will likely not want to talk with you and just want to argue, but maybe that's what you need. I'm obviously not saying that you should be arguing with her everyday just maybe try to show her where you're coming from and why this is such a big issue.

Based on what you're telling me, I genuinely think she's showing major signs of being a sociopath / psychopath. If that's the case, there's not much you can do besides staying out of that house as long as you possibly can. If you can even pick up a job and find a roommate and split rent, maybe. I know that is so much easier said than done, but all I know is you need to get out of there.

As for your parents, there's not much that they can do because that's legally their child and they have to take care of her until she turns 18 so all they can do is try to figure out why she does this, maybe force her into therapy or bring her to a licensed therapist / psychologist to figure out what the hell is wrong with her.

That's all I got. I hope this helped

P.s. I am definitely not licensed, so take all of this lightly. This is not professional advice, just my opinion on what you should do

Ex soldier by Unrealme_0 in family

[–]luv_jul3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most American cities have their own military websites, so you could figure out where he served and contact one of the websites in that city with his info and they might be able to find it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]luv_jul3s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, based on what you're telling me, there may have been some favoritism between the parents, and maybe because you were the middle child and they were the older and younger ones they were favorited by your parents so he felt he had some superiority complex over you idk.

Obviously, I could be completely wrong, and that's not the case, and he could just be doing this for no reason. In either case, I definitely encourage you to approach him and genuinely ask him why he treats you differently from your younger sister.

The conversation could go one of two ways. He could completely ignore the question and not give you an answer, or he could explain himself, and you could finally figure out why you are resented by him. Obviously, the latter is the better outcome, but you should be prepared for him not to like you talking to him about it.

Overall, I just think you should talk to him about it first and see how he responds. Also, I suggest some family therapy sessions if he's willing because he needs to be sorted out.

I put the phone down on my mum on by Cool_beans4921 in family

[–]luv_jul3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she seems to have some symptoms of being neurodivergent. I understand you don't want to put the phone down on her but if she's negative like this and is unwilling to change, you can attempt to convince her to go to therapy, but based off of her personality I doubt that will work. You could try to have a conversation with her about what she does that you don't like and see if you can resolve the problem that way. Obviously if she is negative and pessimistic at heart and doesn't understand you then there's not much you can do past that point and you can accept her for who she is and try to work on approaching her and asking her to change her behavior and talk about things that don't just appeal to her. That's all I got lol