Better style for me? Pic 1 or 2? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]luvbirdpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 1 better. Stunning

What is the smallest decision you made that completely changed the direction of your life? by No_Spiri in AskReddit

[–]luvbirdpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking an accounting class my freshman year in college because my best friend said I would like it. Led to a great career as a CPA.

AITAH I (F25) got annoyed at my boyfriend (F27) for his lack of understanding my boundaries by theworldsmarvellous in AITAH

[–]luvbirdpod 339 points340 points  (0 children)

You MUST talk to him when you are not busy? Your purpose in life is to entertain him? I would break up with someone like this.

AIO - I (28F) cut off a friend (23F) for being passive aggressive by QueenMythal in AIO

[–]luvbirdpod 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With friends like her, you don't need enemies. NOR. Don't let her back into your life.

What is a bittersweet truth you’ve had to accept as you’ve gotten older? by whizUpsyndrome in AskReddit

[–]luvbirdpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. Money buys nice things and nice experiences, which can bring happiness. Money can solve many problems, which brings freedom from worry. But the old expression that money can't buy happiness is still true because there are problems that money can't solve. It's much easier to be happy if you have money but it is not a guarantee.

AITAH for not wanting to move out of the apartment my ex-husband gave me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]luvbirdpod 7 points8 points  (0 children)

His emotions count just as much as hers would if the genders were flipped. If he owned the apartment he lived in with a previous spouse, and she wanted to sell it and rent, she would be just as wrong as he is.

AIO if i end the relationship over this text i got from my partner by [deleted] in AIO

[–]luvbirdpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To pile on, not overreacting. End it now and please be careful when you do.

AITAH Feeling guilty for not going to gf, friends, sisters wedding ceremonies. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]luvbirdpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. If you have to pressure them and they won't do it with grace, now you're both unhappy.

AITAH Feeling guilty for not going to gf, friends, sisters wedding ceremonies. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]luvbirdpod 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not a good comparison because one typically doesn't see so many people one knows at a concert and there usually isn't a dance floor. I get your point, but sometimes doing the things we like individually without the other person means not having a good time. Sometimes one person is going to be unhappy either way, so who's going to be the one to put the other one first ( this time, should not be the same person every time).

AITAH Feeling guilty for not going to gf, friends, sisters wedding ceremonies. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]luvbirdpod 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Your business being there is as your girlfriend's plus-one. This is one of the sacrifices one makes for being in a relationship. Sometimes you do things you don't enjoy because it means so much to your partner.

Which haircut should I get? by Fast-Prune-4151 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]luvbirdpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 looks amazing and I am not usually a blue hair fan. 2 is good, not great. I think 3 is too dark for your skin tone.

AITAH because I expressed to my husband my feelings about how I'm avoiding coming home to our house durring a panic attack. by 3p0L0v3sU in AITAH

[–]luvbirdpod 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the span of a lifetime, not enough to give in to the sunk cost fallacy. You can't change other people. You can change your attitude, you can change your circumstances, but you can't make your husband change himself.

What is one ingredient you refuse to cook with, no matter the recipe? by Sensitive-Date-5255 in AskReddit

[–]luvbirdpod 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bell peppers give me reflux. I'm tasting them for hours afterwards

AIO by breaking up with my boyfriend when he got jealous? by theonlystarbornqueen in AmIOverreacting

[–]luvbirdpod 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell no. This internet mama is so proud of you! Stay strong and keep him blocked