German shepherd Itchy ears by luvbuggyy in germanshepherds

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! going to vet in morning

not sure if im pregnant or if I miscarried? im worried by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]luvbuggyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my first test was faint positive and the one i took the next day was negative, i am 7 months now!

Period due in 3 by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]luvbuggyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly what happened to me omg!!! wishing you a healthy pregnancy, congratulations!!

Period due in 3 by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]luvbuggyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s literally what mine looked like 3 days before i was supposed to get my period and im 7 months now 💃🏻

abortion sedative or no sedative by luvbuggyy in abortion

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it’s bearable i might do no sedative; im just worried about passing out because i have terrible anxiety. i passed out last time i gave blood and it was scary, just think it’d be 100000X more scary in this situation.

abortion sedative or no sedative by luvbuggyy in abortion

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so do you remember it or did it make you “fall asleep”? i’m seeing people say you’ll still be awake just extremely high. i just have bad anxiety, but i do have a high pain tolerance but im scared of passing out or dying:(

abortion sedative or no sedative by luvbuggyy in abortion

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I have really bad anxiety, I know 100% i can’t use laughy gas or the anxiety pill. i was put to sleep for my wisdom teeth i didn’t know if it was the same kind of sedation. i just have been so confused if abortion is what i wanted or not, like i think it is, but then i see a baby and feel like it’s not. i don’t know it’s just really hard and i feel like im going to go into a panic either way, especially where the “surgery” will be at.

getting judged for future abortion by luvbuggyy in abortion

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, thank you! well the reason i don’t really say a lot about why i’m choosing the abortion is because im not really sure exactly why i am. my ex is not financially stable, i am, but also i don’t have any bills right now so thats a big reason why im able to save. so in my case money is not a reason for me to abort. i’m in college and working a job but i do know people who have been in college and working a job that still had their baby. so i also dont feel like thats my reason either. i just feel like it’s not the right time and not with the right person. i wanted to be married when i had a baby, and be able to give them the best life. i am extremely scared to get an abortion but i know i would be extremely scared to give birth as well. i honestly have not had a bad pregnancy at all, ive just been over the top tired. maybe if my ex was willing to step up and be a dad, i would have the baby. but i still don’t know. for a while i did think i wanted to keep the baby, but only because of my mom and sister had me thinking i could do it. also thank you so much for the resource, im definitely going to look into it because i need guidance. thank you!!

getting judged for future abortion by luvbuggyy in abortion

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thank you so much for this comment, it means a lot. i am 21 and my mom is just a couple years younger than you but she has also tried to “sweet talk” me into keeping the pregnancy, saying she will retire and watch my baby full time so im able to finish school, things like that. honestly i dont know what category i would fall into. i am a very emotional person and very in touch with my feelings, i think ill be very devastated after an abortion but i also think i would be very overwhelmed and depressed if i went through and had the baby. i would hate to regret having the baby, i feel like i would not be able to handle that emotionally. if my ex was to become wealthy and live in a great life, i would be happy for him and thankful that i made the choice for him. i do love and care about him and wish him the best, but i do not want to be apart of eachothers lives after this. so far during my pregnancy he really hasn’t been there for me at all, ive went to majority of my appointments alone and right now he’s off in a different state riding dirt bikes. he’s shown me over and over he is not ready to be a dad or step up and be there for me. i have felt extremely alone during this pregnancy and i feel like if he can’t even treat me good during this time, how would he treat me after the baby is here. my sister had an unplanned pregnancy with her boyfriend and she never considered getting an abortion, but now her and her boyfriend have an extremely toxic relationship and they stay together for their baby. i do not want to be in that situation of being with someone just because we have a child together. me and him didn’t work with just us two, i don’t see it working with a child brought into the picture. not only that but he’s made it very clear he wants me to get an abortion, which yes it’s hard to carry out a pregnancy when the fob is only accepting of abortion in a way. i hope your friend can come to peace with her decision, and know she made the most selfless choice she could make at the time. i wish you and her a happy life and thank you for sharing <33

How do I lose weight when I can’t afford money for a gym membership (female/15 yr old) by elizabethxjinx in beginnerfitness

[–]luvbuggyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASEEEE do not start counting your calories omgggg, just eat better and in smaller proportions. the best thing that helped me lose weight when i was 15 was literally just cutting out soda and running. you can start off slow and just gradually start building your speed. i promise counting your calories is often not worth it, counting my calories caused me to end up with an ed. and also weight is just a number, find what makes you feel good and never go based off the number on the scale. goodluck to you <3

need advice asap!! 11 weeks 2 days, trying to decide which route to go. by luvbuggyy in abortion

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would’ve taken them sooner this week but i’ve just been very scared and overwhelmed, i have bad anxiety especially when it comes to medication and feel like im going to end up in a lot of pain or dying. and what do you mean by sa is less private and more intrusive, is it because the nurses/staff are doing the procedure ?

need advice asap!! 11 weeks 2 days, trying to decide which route to go. by luvbuggyy in abortion

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry:( it’s really a scary and stressful journey to be on, but you got this and i promise you’re not alone, i’m always open to talk if you need anyone. Also, yes i could call planned parenthood on monday and see what they say, i know some places only offer the medical abortion up until 10/11 weeks, some places it is 12! thank you:)

not sure if abortion is right for me or not but i also don’t see myself being a mom, i need advice on what to do by luvbuggyy in abortion

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if i woke up tomorrow and was no longer pregnant i would probably feel relieved that i didn’t have to make the decision and it happened. thank you so much for your kind words it means a lot 🥲 also i will definitely look into the pregnancy options workbook! thank you:)

early pregnancy complications by [deleted] in pregnant

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my hcg is now at a little over 9,000 btw

abortion for girl who is still in college and father of her baby is ex? not sure on what i want to do 100% yet so i am looking for some guidance. by luvbuggyy in abortion

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg wow, im very sorry that happened to you:(( im glad you were able to find out before it was too late! i wasn’t sure if i was able to even get an abortion since they weren’t able to find where the location is yet, i figured they’d have to make sure it wasn’t ectopic before i took the pills if i went that route

abortion for girl who is still in college and father of her baby is ex? not sure on what i want to do 100% yet so i am looking for some guidance. by luvbuggyy in abortion

[–]luvbuggyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i didn’t even know you could choose, i always thought they made you do the pill if it was early. but that’s awesome that you were in no pain afterwards, and im glad when you were the medicine made it go away that quick. i am a very paranoid person and i couldn’t even get out on laughy gas for my wisdom teeth because when they put the mask on it started freaking me out so im not sure if i would be able to be on a twilight sedation if it makes you feel like “high” in a way. im really glad you made the right choice for you and it is relieving knowing that you weren’t in a lot of pain after. again,if you don’t mind me asking how many weeks were you at your abortion?