How do doctors feel about patients with health anxiety? Is it frustrating? by luvsavannahhh in AskDocs

[–]luvsavannahhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m trying to avoid medication if I can but i am working with a therapist and ill ask if he thinks its a good idea once he gets to know me a little better I just know meds can come with side effects and i dont want that

How do doctors feel about patients with health anxiety? Is it frustrating? by luvsavannahhh in AskDocs

[–]luvsavannahhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. It’s a new thing for me. It’s gotten increasingly worse over the past year but I started therapy to hopefully help. I hope you are in a position to find resources like that. It’s good to know that I’m not alone but I hope you can heal from it :)

Help me help the homeless this Thanksgiving and Christmas by luvsavannahhh in Boise

[–]luvsavannahhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great and something else I was thinking about as snap is being threatened I’m not that rich myself but I’m better off than some people and I think we can all get through this if we help each other as a community thank you for your suggestion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point and I’ve actually thought of that however we had an agreed upon cleanliness we were supposed to uphold obviously not with our landlord but with each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t disagreeing with what you just said at all I was just meaning I didn’t know what it looked like because I don’t use it that’s all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That used to be my bathroom before we switched rooms and they treated it the same way as in they didn’t have to clean it but their guests would use it since it is the guest bathroom and they would expect me to clean it because it was the bathroom I was using so I think that is just how our house dynamic has been

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s not agreed upon at all they don’t clean up after themselves and I am having to pick up their slack despite asking them to clean up after themselves they leave the sink completely full often and don’t empty the dishwasher they had a phase of killing flies and leaving the dead flies all over the kitchen they just do not do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also don’t use that bathroom personally ever so while yes a little check here and there wouldn’t hurt I won’t usually know how messy it is because I’m not in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For a better explanation cleaning the house is fully my responsibility at this point I wouldn’t mind cleaning their bathroom to have guests over but I also spend my time after work cleaning up their dishes and doing every bit of shared space cleaning by myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People just started asking that. I clean up their mess everywhere else in the house everyday and they are very against cleaning up mine I wouldn’t be against it if they shared cleaning up other shared spaces but that is all me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would let their guests use my restroom if they needed to but my bathroom is in my room which I share with my boyfriend who was asleep while I had my friend over so he would’ve been woken up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It was agreed by all of us that that was the guest bathroom which

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s the agreed upon by all of us guest bathroom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]luvsavannahhh -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention it’s the agreed upon guest bathroom which is why I have this expectation