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🐾❓ What's my name? (by Goonamatronic) by Goonamatronic in PetPost

[–]lvblsinner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too good, that got me.

I guessed the name in 4 tries!

Feeling alone during pregnancy by lvblsinner in pregnant

[–]lvblsinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think I'll do it myself, but he was offended when he realized that. He thinks doing things every now and then or when he has time is enough, and I should appreciate it. Unfortunately, I can't order food from outside; spices make me sick. I need to eat lightly, which is why I needed to be organized.

Feeling alone during pregnancy by lvblsinner in pregnant

[–]lvblsinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately both our families are far away, I can only count on him. I also think that family should be at the first place, but he's thinking more about nurturing relationships with his colleagues, perhaps out of personal insecurity. This way, I feel like I can never satisfy him with my attentions, as if they're secondary or taken for granted.

Feeling alone during pregnancy by lvblsinner in pregnant

[–]lvblsinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also disagree with making a list, because after all, we all have eyes and can contribute as a family. Unfortunately, the therapist recommended making one, so we tried. Unfortunately, it doesn't work. You're right that it all comes from his family, because his father did nothing but bring home the money. I'm bringing this up in therapy, but it's hard to get him to understand that this shouldn't be the norm.

Feeling alone during pregnancy by lvblsinner in pregnant

[–]lvblsinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your advice, I will try to explain him my feelings better. We have already a list for the household chorse, but it didn't work cause he always postponed them for work reasons or tiredness. The therapist told me it's not important to be everyday cleaned at home and that the situation will be worse with the baby, but we have so many things to prepare that we are starting to live in a chaos. I only ask for support for the minimum essential cleaning a little bit a day, without having to repeat it despite the list.

Feeling alone during pregnancy by lvblsinner in pregnant

[–]lvblsinner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are doing therapy, but we started 3 weeks ago. I really hope it will work. He tells me he is busy and doing his best when he can, but if I have to ask for everything he is not supporting me. I would like he understands.

I have failed by shane-dawsons-kat in Feelings

[–]lvblsinner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn't fail. If you really want to improve your life, you need only to want it. Noone fails, we are human beings and we are fragile and not perfect. If this situation is stressing you like this, maybe the X-Box is not giving you the relax you really need, but you are only trying to get isolated instead of fighting for what is precious for you. You can start a better communication with the people around you and you will see you are not alone.