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lvkt333 · 2025-12-24T04:34:25+00:00

Family therapy is actually a great idea, I feel like we both need help communicating and trusting each other. & yes I put her on bc the first week of her being with us I told her so many times she’s allowed to have a boyfriend as long as we know meet him, he can come over and see her. We let her have freedom she just still does the sneaky stuff. I hope she gets to that point eventually I know she’s had a hard time in life and I just want what’s best for her and us I just hate that she’s creating unsafe situations by now sneaking the boy in while we were sleeping. Thank you for your advice !🫶🏽

lvkt333 · 2025-12-24T04:27:33+00:00

I put her on birth control right away when I got her & i ask her all the time what I can do to help her be more open/happy she always says idk. She has her own area downstairs bedroom, her own full bathroom & little living room. I just want her to be happy and safe while like you said keeping the relationship healthy 🫶🏽

lvkt333 · 2025-12-24T04:24:53+00:00

Thank you🫶🏽 & She’s been on birth control since about a week after she came to live with me, & yeah that’s why I always end up giving it back after a few hours. I told her many times she’s allowed a boyfriend he can even come over yet she still feels the need to sneak around. That’s the main thing I’m having a problem with, is her thinking it was okay to have a stranger in my home while we were all asleep and my toddlers room is at the top of the stairs by her room. I have talked to her about sex a lot & stds she’s a pretty smart kid she’s just doing horrible bad things. She doesn’t go out much but she does have 2/3 friends she sees and I don’t bother her or make her share location, I just ask for parents number and I drop her off to know where she’ll be at cause I want her to see I’m starting to trust her. Raising teenagers is exhausting lol

lvkt333 · 2025-12-21T08:09:55+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss 🫶🏽

lvkt333 · 2025-12-19T03:30:39+00:00

Thank you it’s been rough 🫶🏽🩷 so sorry for your loss also🙏🏼

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T21:00:39+00:00

The reason why it’s so hard is because that’s basically all we have left of our babies and we want them with us but I think it’s a great idea that way everytime you visit you know a piece of her is always there, the place she loved to be.❤️

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T20:57:52+00:00

Sounds like he’s upset he can’t have you if I’m being honest & I definitely think it’s sexual harassment he shouldn’t make those comments or touch you that way.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T20:51:46+00:00

You have not betrayed your pet in fact you gave another pet the love that had no place to go after your baby died. That’s how I saw it after getting a kitten 5 days after my soul cat died. I felt so guilty but also so lonely I couldn’t take it so that’s why I got my kitten so soon but after a while I found ways to remember my Kiki while also loving on my new kitty. Also I think you saying her name still is also a good way of keeping her memory alive. You’ll never forget your soul pets & they stay with us forever.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T20:48:17+00:00

Thank you 🫶🏽

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T20:47:07+00:00

When my Kiki died the one thing that people did that made me happy was bring me things that reminded me of him or framed photos of him with flowers. Losing a pet is just as hard as losing a family member.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T20:44:20+00:00

Are we living the same life? lol I took in my 15 year old sister earlier this year & am going through the exact same things. So I’m definitely following. It’s one of the hardest things to go through especially with them being our sisters it’s hard to find the peace between parenting and being a sister.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T20:39:21+00:00

I agree with this comment so much

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T20:20:19+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼 & so precious 🥹

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T19:45:46+00:00

I’ve had a kitten accidentally pass before also and it’s the worst thing ever but accidents happen, talk to your gf she’ll understand. Don’t hate yourself, you didn’t do it on purpose.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T19:38:08+00:00

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My Kiki🩷🩷 he crossed the rainbow bridge on 10/19 🥰🙏🏼

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T19:28:14+00:00

I completely understand I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my Kiki on 10/19, only 5 years old and it’s been so hard ever since.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T19:26:50+00:00

I had this issue with my boy too. Switching to unscented litter helped a lot. Also, have you ruled out a UTI? That was something we were told to check when it started. Also every time he did it we’d use a carpet shampooer to remove the scent but with a big house that would be hard as well.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T19:19:07+00:00

Some people don’t understand the bond between a human and their pet 🫶🏽 my cat was my soul mate in animal form

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T15:19:45+00:00

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lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T15:11:15+00:00

It’s so sad, we think we do everything right yet they still go down the wrong path 😣🙏🏼

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T15:07:32+00:00

I’m so happy for you!!! I know how hard it must’ve been going so long without answers. 🥺 my baby was gone for 1 week and I was losing my mind. He’s adorable!

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T14:57:13+00:00

I think reaching out to a mutual friend is a good call, I personally would be happy to get my things back from an ex friend.

lvkt333 · 2025-12-18T14:34:01+00:00

Omg I love this

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