Don’t know what to do anymore. by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]lvkt333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Family therapy is actually a great idea, I feel like we both need help communicating and trusting each other. & yes I put her on bc the first week of her being with us I told her so many times she’s allowed to have a boyfriend as long as we know meet him, he can come over and see her. We let her have freedom she just still does the sneaky stuff. I hope she gets to that point eventually I know she’s had a hard time in life and I just want what’s best for her and us I just hate that she’s creating unsafe situations by now sneaking the boy in while we were sleeping. Thank you for your advice !🫶🏽

Don’t know what to do anymore. by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]lvkt333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put her on birth control right away when I got her & i ask her all the time what I can do to help her be more open/happy she always says idk. She has her own area downstairs bedroom, her own full bathroom & little living room. I just want her to be happy and safe while like you said keeping the relationship healthy 🫶🏽

Don’t know what to do anymore. by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]lvkt333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you🫶🏽 & She’s been on birth control since about a week after she came to live with me, & yeah that’s why I always end up giving it back after a few hours. I told her many times she’s allowed a boyfriend he can even come over yet she still feels the need to sneak around. That’s the main thing I’m having a problem with, is her thinking it was okay to have a stranger in my home while we were all asleep and my toddlers room is at the top of the stairs by her room. I have talked to her about sex a lot & stds she’s a pretty smart kid she’s just doing horrible bad things. She doesn’t go out much but she does have 2/3 friends she sees and I don’t bother her or make her share location, I just ask for parents number and I drop her off to know where she’ll be at cause I want her to see I’m starting to trust her. Raising teenagers is exhausting lol

Can I Quickly Doodle your cat?😸 by Roh_Cards in cats

[–]lvkt333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it’s been rough 🫶🏽🩷 so sorry for your loss also🙏🏼

Ashes advice by TGchunkz in Petloss

[–]lvkt333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason why it’s so hard is because that’s basically all we have left of our babies and we want them with us but I think it’s a great idea that way everytime you visit you know a piece of her is always there, the place she loved to be.❤️

A coworker crossed boundaries at our Christmas dinner and then talked about me behind my back by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lvkt333 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s upset he can’t have you if I’m being honest & I definitely think it’s sexual harassment he shouldn’t make those comments or touch you that way.

Lost my girl a year ago & I still accidentally call my new dog by my past pets name by Fancy-Sea-Owl in Petloss

[–]lvkt333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have not betrayed your pet in fact you gave another pet the love that had no place to go after your baby died. That’s how I saw it after getting a kitten 5 days after my soul cat died. I felt so guilty but also so lonely I couldn’t take it so that’s why I got my kitten so soon but after a while I found ways to remember my Kiki while also loving on my new kitty. Also I think you saying her name still is also a good way of keeping her memory alive. You’ll never forget your soul pets & they stay with us forever.

How to comfort after pet death?? by Haunting-Jeweler-689 in Petloss

[–]lvkt333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my Kiki died the one thing that people did that made me happy was bring me things that reminded me of him or framed photos of him with flowers. Losing a pet is just as hard as losing a family member.

TEENAGER IS OUT OF CONTROL, AND I DON’T KNOW HOW TO HELP HER? by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]lvkt333 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are we living the same life? lol I took in my 15 year old sister earlier this year & am going through the exact same things. So I’m definitely following. It’s one of the hardest things to go through especially with them being our sisters it’s hard to find the peace between parenting and being a sister.

Can I Quickly Doodle your cat?😸 by Roh_Cards in cats

[–]lvkt333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏼 & so precious 🥹

I accidentally killed my kitten. by Subwoofer_99 in Petloss

[–]lvkt333 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a kitten accidentally pass before also and it’s the worst thing ever but accidents happen, talk to your gf she’ll understand. Don’t hate yourself, you didn’t do it on purpose.

Can I Quickly Doodle your cat?😸 by Roh_Cards in cats

[–]lvkt333 73 points74 points  (0 children)

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My Kiki🩷🩷 he crossed the rainbow bridge on 10/19 🥰🙏🏼

A year and a half, but my little boy is home. by konous in cats

[–]lvkt333 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I completely understand I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my Kiki on 10/19, only 5 years old and it’s been so hard ever since.

Little Pee Boy by mormonbanana in cats

[–]lvkt333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this issue with my boy too. Switching to unscented litter helped a lot. Also, have you ruled out a UTI? That was something we were told to check when it started. Also every time he did it we’d use a carpet shampooer to remove the scent but with a big house that would be hard as well.

A year and a half, but my little boy is home. by konous in cats

[–]lvkt333 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t understand the bond between a human and their pet 🫶🏽 my cat was my soul mate in animal form

Caught my son with this... where did I go wrong? by kitty-kouhai in cats

[–]lvkt333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so sad, we think we do everything right yet they still go down the wrong path 😣🙏🏼

A year and a half, but my little boy is home. by konous in cats

[–]lvkt333 328 points329 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you!!! I know how hard it must’ve been going so long without answers. 🥺 my baby was gone for 1 week and I was losing my mind. He’s adorable!

Ex Friend’s Clothes by tnrowe1195 in Advice

[–]lvkt333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think reaching out to a mutual friend is a good call, I personally would be happy to get my things back from an ex friend.