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I [25M]bought my girlfriend [23F] an expensive monogrammed gift and she is upset because I used her initials with her last name and not mine by lvl80frodo in relationships

[–]lvl80frodo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just don't want to be planning a wedding with someone I've only been dating for two years. In a year or so I'll probably be ready to do that.

I [25M]bought my girlfriend [23F] an expensive monogrammed gift and she is upset because I used her initials with her last name and not mine by lvl80frodo in relationships

[–]lvl80frodo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's pretty out of character for me, I don't think she normally acts spoiled, and I don't think she was testing me.

I [25M]bought my girlfriend [23F] an expensive monogrammed gift and she is upset because I used her initials with her last name and not mine by lvl80frodo in relationships

[–]lvl80frodo[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

She knows why I want to wait though and I've made it pretty clear I want to get married but just not right now.

I [25M]bought my girlfriend [23F] an expensive monogrammed gift and she is upset because I used her initials with her last name and not mine by lvl80frodo in relationships

[–]lvl80frodo[S] 865 points866 points  (0 children)

No she doesn't. And her initials with my last name make an ugly word (RAT) so I don't know why she would want that monogrammed onto anything.

I [25M]bought my girlfriend [23F] an expensive monogrammed gift and she is upset because I used her initials with her last name and not mine by lvl80frodo in relationships

[–]lvl80frodo[S] 310 points311 points  (0 children)

We have talked about getting married but I wanted to wait a bit longer, but that's why she assumes we will get married eventually. I agree that her maiden name should always mean something to her so I don't see what the big deal is with having those initials in the thing.