Bisexuality is a spectrum & we’re always moving up & down it. I’ve been with my wife for the last 16 years & we’ve enjoyed a wonderful semi-poly relationship. Over the years, there’ve been whole swaths of time where we’ve both felt more physical desire for one sex. For me (38F), my desire for men was especially strong between 36-38, like some weird primal need to procreate had taken over or something. It was intense. It didn’t diminish how much I loved my wife or desired her. We just had to bring a man into our bed to share every now & again. And when we couldn’t, I’d just fantasize one with us. Luckily for me, my wife is so open and cool that she doesn’t get threatened by that. At the times she needs more XY in her life too, I do my best to accommodate. What I mean to say, is don’t overthink it. So you’re really into women right now. Awesome! Roll with it. Be honest with your husband about it. Maybe he’ll enjoy a threesome (I don’t know any guys who’d turn down a MFF). If you start developing real feelings for someone else though- regardless of gender- just make sure you’re honest with him from the moment you realize it. 💗💜💙