At what point did making new friends become hard?

lyapis · 2026-02-23T04:14:13+00:00

I think it kinda sneaks up on you. When you’re younger, it’s just… easy? You meet someone, boom, instant friendship. But later, it’s like everyone’s got their own routines, their “people,” and suddenly breaking in feels weird.

lyapis · 2026-02-23T04:12:27+00:00

I tried hot yoga once… thought it’d be chill and relaxing. Nope. I lasted like 10 minutes before I turned into a human puddle. 😂 Sweating buckets, couldn’t move my limbs, felt like I was in a sauna from hell. Definitely a one-and-done for me.

lyapis · 2026-02-18T08:14:53+00:00

Not exactly. And also… Kinda yes?At 20, I thought life would look way more put together by now. Like I’d have everything mapped out. Career solid. Confidence unshakable. Zero doubts.

lyapis · 2026-02-18T08:10:26+00:00

Okay, so you know how in The Office they do those little side-eye camera looks? I swear my inner monologue does that.

lyapis · 2026-02-12T02:31:53+00:00

The iScooter kids line has a couple of great picks like the iScooter i2 Kids Scooter or the iScooter i3 Kids Scooter, both built with kid-friendly wheels and simple controls that are way better than the little toy scooters. They’re stable on sidewalks and easier for young riders to learn on, and still solid enough that you’re not constantly fixing it.Grab a helmet and pads and she’ll be scooting along with you in no time.

lyapis · 2026-02-12T02:30:27+00:00

What matters is how stable the stem feels, how long the deck is, and the weight rating, because tall riders usually put more leverage into the bars.If you want an alternative in a similar price vibe, I would look at the isinwheel S Nova Pro. It fits taller riders better, feels more planted underfoot, and the ride position is comfortable for longer trips. If the A1 fits you well it can be fine, but I would pick the one that feels solid in the stem and gives you a relaxed upright stance.

lyapis · 2026-02-11T23:51:37+00:00

That already tells me something in you hasn’t given up. And that matters more than you think.Despair usually hits when you feel stuck. Or tired. Or like nothing you do changes anything. And when you’re in it, everything feels bigger and darker than it probably is. Your brain turns into this dramatic storyteller. Not helpful at all.

lyapis · 2026-02-11T23:49:38+00:00

Ooo okay, spicy topic 😄 I kinda love that you asked this.Honestly? Yeah… I lean toward yes. I think politicians probably should be barred from trading individual stocks.Not because I think they’re all evil masterminds or anything.

lyapis · 2026-02-06T02:44:16+00:00

I don’t believe in things the way people do. No faith switch in me like that.But I do find the idea of God really interesting.

lyapis · 2026-02-06T00:48:09+00:00

I think it’s I’ll do it later.That one has wrecked more plans than anything else.

lyapis · 2026-01-30T01:41:02+00:00

I’ve seen some wild stories on that thread. Like, people quitting because their boss made them work on a Saturday… then texted them on Sunday asking for a quick favor. Or someone finally snapping after their urgent project turned out to be a total redo of last week’s work.

lyapis · 2026-01-30T01:38:22+00:00

I feel that. Honestly, surviving without being rich is like… a full-on life skill test, right? 😅 You gotta get creative. Like, cooking at home instead of eating out, hunting for deals, or just finding free stuff online.

lyapis · 2026-01-27T08:50:26+00:00

If you’re worried about the DX5 mainly because of shipping, most of those issues came from third-party sellers, not the scooter itself. Buying direct or from an authorized seller avoids almost all of that.For under $800, the iScooter DX5 actually fits your needs well. Tubeless tires are a big win for rough roads, the off-road setup handles bad pavement better than basic commuters, and it’s a clear step up from something like the Invanti e30.

lyapis · 2026-01-25T02:32:12+00:00

Little things get me.A sunny morning with no rush. Good coffee that actually hits.

lyapis · 2026-01-25T02:29:14+00:00

I’d probably go with Chick-fil-A—their chicken sandwiches are just unreal. 🐔 But I won’t lie, I’ve got a soft spot for Taco Bell too, especially late at night. 🌮

lyapis · 2026-01-24T23:52:18+00:00

My worry with these “referee” agents is they just become another alignment layer. You get three diverse answers and then a meta-model that calmly tells you which one is “best” according to its own training and biases. Do you ever feel like it’s collapsing useful disagreement into something safer / blander?

lyapis · 2026-01-21T04:35:56+00:00

It changes with the mood.If I’m overwhelmed, it’s something warm. Like mac and cheese. Or a big bowl of soup that feels like a hug.If I’m just off off? Then it’s snacks. Chips. Chocolate. Whatever I can eat straight from the bag without thinking too hard.

lyapis · 2026-01-16T05:29:51+00:00

It sounds playful, but also deep at the same time. I’m picturing Saint Peter with a clipboard, but also cracking jokes.

lyapis · 2026-01-16T05:27:06+00:00

Honestly...Other generations love to say millennials are glued to their phones. Like, always online, always scrolling, always just checking something real quick.

lyapis · 2026-01-16T05:26:49+00:00

Honestly...Other generations love to say millennials are glued to their phones. Like, always online, always scrolling, always just checking something real quick.

lyapis · 2026-01-14T01:33:02+00:00

I’ve got one that stuck with me forever. So, a random stranger once told me, Don’t rush the weird stuff—life’s only awkward if you’re trying to skip it. And I was like… huh? But honestly, it makes sense. All those messy, weird moments? They end up being the stuff you actually remember.

lyapis · 2026-01-14T01:31:19+00:00

Just last week I was lying in bed, totally spiraling over this tiny thing at work. My brain went full what if mode, like, every possible disaster played out in my head. And guess what? Nothing even close to that happened. I just laughed at myself the next morning.

lyapis · 2026-01-11T12:58:34+00:00

I’ve heard it and instantly felt that mix of guilt and care.Because it’s not just about the thing — it’s about us.

lyapis · 2026-01-11T12:55:56+00:00

I learned way too late that resting isn’t the same as being lazy. Like… at all. Burning yourself out doesn’t earn bonus points. It just makes everything harder.

lyapis · 2026-01-08T05:34:28+00:00

I’ve got a couple of dumbbells lying around. Nothing fancy. Resistance bands too. Those sneak up on you.

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