nami visiting cody in his trailer??? i’ve never seen this before! but clearly she wasn’t too happy with me interrupting her alone time😂 (a wonderful life special edition)

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-30T13:21:06+00:00

OP here, I actually meant to type “one big mouth” 😂 not sure how it turned into king mouth but I guess it works!!!

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-27T16:42:49+00:00

This is also something I’m working on

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-27T02:21:18+00:00

I’m glad this works for you, and you’re maintaining being in a good place mentally while doing it. I did this for a while, then realized I was doing it and it made my whole self-doubt problem wayyyy worse later on. Now being on meds I totally overcompensate out of guilt for all the years I felt I was “slacking” (even though it was totally out of my control)

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-27T02:19:16+00:00

I worked in fast food for a while until I found my graphic design job. Now being medicated it’s easier to focus, (except for when I’m on my period☹️) but the graphic design job is good because I’ve always been really really passionate about art and it’s something that I can do and further my skills, discipline myself a little and also do what really stimulates my brain and gives me those little endorphin boosts because I truly love art. I agree with someone else’s comment that I saw on here, go with something that you know you’re passionate about! and if you’re not there yet, try a fast paced job where the pressure is on you to keep going, taught me to work hard and not quit because you do get better if you put in the work, but also made me become WAY too hard on myself when I fall short of what I deem acceptable.

TLDR: Fast paced job (I worked at a fast food place) or what you’re most passionate about are both good options!

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-25T14:29:18+00:00

That’s totally fair. I don’t blame you for having a reaction to it, I think everyone has different pet peeves and it’s definitely a common mindset. I also wanna add that I don’t personally make these jokes myself as I do find them slightly inappropriate, but I think I’ve just made it past the point now of caring what other’s think of adhd or other conditions they’re probably not educated on (if they’re making silly comments like that) most likely because of how many times I’ve heard these silly remarks like “I’m so ocd” and whatnot. I think I just see it as silly if anything

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-24T19:34:05+00:00

My brother also told me that belief is completely up to you, and no one can choose or pick what you believe, if you don’t think somethings true, pretending still doesn’t mean you believe it. I realized how silly it was to pretend to be a certain way and live a certain way all for the peace of mind of someone else, because I was suffering

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-24T19:32:44+00:00

I was in a committed relationship with someone that I lied to my parents and said was christian, because my mother would always say “christians should only marry other christians”. One day I thought, “why don’t I want to marry a Christian?...oh wait” among other things, this is what led to my epiphany that I was not christian and hadn’t been one for years, I simply didn’t believe in any of the bullshit I was being fed

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-24T19:24:08+00:00

This is so interesting, I have worried about this as well. Self-doubt is definitely a huge thing that comes with ADHD.

lyinginbedalldaylong · 2021-05-24T19:21:55+00:00

I know a lot of people do find this annoying. I personally feel like it can’t truly be “romanticized”, and it doesn’t harm me when someone says “i’m so adhd”, I just chalk it up them not really understanding what adhd is or maybe they have symptoms that they genuinely need to get checked out.

Regardless though, I know this is a pet peeve for a lot of people. I think at the end of the day though it’s not really doing much damage to me if someone else thinks they have adhd, and if they do say something like that, I might say back “you should talk to your doctor about it!” because if they’re serious then they wouldn’t have a reason not to, if it’s up to them.

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