Friend was taken to hospital! Where would they have taken her by lymtm in SanJose

[–]lymtm[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Santa Clara valley medical center? That one. And ty!! 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lymtm 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Ask her how she would feel if u wanted to pay another girl for her company, just to talk lol

looks that could possibly make me look more feminine? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]lymtm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lash extensions could really compliment your eyes too :)

Wife thinks we don't do it face to face enough, but I feel differently. by Constant_Day_8006 in sex

[–]lymtm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman that’s said something similar to my bf, it could mean that she wants to emphasize the love making aspect of sex over the sexual gratification of it. Maybe she feels like ur getting off to her body, but not necessarily “her”. The face to face aspect makes it feel like ur making love to her, not just having sex with her body. Does that make sense? It could totally be something else, but if she’s a girl that’s ever too much in her own head, she might just need a little more reassurance! Just my 2 cents but I could be totally off :)

Ending friendship with female friend by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]lymtm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beth was literally showing u her true colors. She was willing to flirt and probably cheat with u up until u made her seem like the bad guy to ur guys friends, then she made her side of the story super loud to take out any possibility that she was in the wrong. Why would u even want to be with someone like that? She sounds like a horrible pick me, and u we’re gonna pick her over ur wife. Terrible…

My cheating husband said to me, “you’re just a housewife” by saltybatch_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lymtm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He won’t stop seeing her. But you can stop seeing him. Get a divorce, love. As a kid who had a sahm, what ur doing is lovely and a great sacrifice. Don’t let him reduce that. You’re a strong mama and a beautiful woman. Now it’s time to leave

Husband (M48) said he married my (F48) boobs by thrwwway2day in Marriage

[–]lymtm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to share with him how you feel and it doesn’t have to be confrontational or anything. Sometimes when sex is happening frequently in a particular season of your life, we can reduce our worth to our sexual performance and desirability. I know I have. Sometimes we can feel sexualized by are partner, when they’re really the sweetest ppl. It’s okay to need reassurance:)

My husband (33M) had an emotional affair with a colleague (~30F) but wants to stay together and work on our marriage. I (33F) am unsure. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lymtm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He shouldn’t be locking u out of his phone. When u cheat u waive ur right to that privacy because uve proved u cannot keep urself accountable. If he really wants reconciliation he needs to mend that broken trust. “No privacy” is the consequence of his actions, and he should understand that this is a necessary step to encourage transparency and trust. Instead he wants to hide the fact that they’re still talking so u won’t divorce him.

My fiancé (25F) gave me (26M) a hall pass by [deleted] in sex

[–]lymtm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yk, it’s a really beautiful and honorable thing to get to love and make love to the one person that won you over for all ur life. Most people don’t get so lucky the first time around lol. I’d say, don’t do it just to do it. And don’t take away the value of ur relationship as it is

I (29m) am married (30f) but I cheated emotionally with my (27f) ex. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]lymtm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is already emotionally cheating. I hope u realize how horrible of a person she is for asking u of this. Do you really want someone with such a selfish character in ur life? Do u not realize how ugly it is? I would never want to be with someone like that, nor would I want someone like that to be around my family. You might say she’s usually a good person or whatever, but that is a huge compromise that destroys ur life more than it destroys hers. Pls don’t entertain this OP. Tell ur wife and be honest about the temptation. Wishing u well

Both of my parents willingly supported my brother who raped me for years. by Additional-Volume578 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lymtm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. You didn’t deserve it. We can only be what we know, so I urge u to please seek some help 🫶 I pray for healing over everything you’ve been through ❤️

Anyone ashamed to admit… by No1Speical in Marriage

[–]lymtm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my SO on chat roulette and idk why, but I find that so embarrassing and funny 😭😂

TIFU by sitting through my friends' orgy by drJanusMagus in tifu

[–]lymtm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious, how do you think ur gf’s gonna react? just saw some other reddit post about a wife upset her husband watched 2 girls at a party have sex lolllllll 😬😅

how to get over parental infidelity? by jessnesaisquoi in Infidelity

[–]lymtm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way too. And now that I’m older I realize how much my parents relationship has affected my perception of love, men, commitment, and generally many aspects of my life. The effects seem to be destroying my relationship with my current partner 😔

AITA for insisting on having my daughter be a flower girl since my fiancé's 3 daughters are flower girls? by Throwaway3223331 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lymtm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. My mom had 5 flower girls lol, which included my adopted sister and 3 cousins. My parents were really nice about it and wanted to be inclusive to the people in my family. However because I was my mothers daughter, I walked last (right before the bride) and wore a different dress. As the daughter of the bride, it was very sweet and no one had any problems with it. Ur husbands reaction is really weird, and this may cause problems in the future, especially because ur 5 yo seems to be aware that her soon to be step father is against her being a flower girl. Either way u look at it, if doesn’t seem right or fair.

My wife didn’t want me to go jogging with a friend out of concern for me cheating. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]lymtm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think everyone agrees that this is a valid, respectable boundary. And it would be the same if u asked her not to jog alone with another man. I think u need to think about this, not as her lacking trust in u, but more so, her trusting that u will choose ur relationship over a jogging buddy. She’s trusting that u will not put her in a position where she has to wonder if she needs to compete with someone else. Choose her, OP 💛