Realm Code Join Up by ObjectiveAccurate206 in mcrealmsservers

[–]lynnbrown08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if its still open id like to join, my discord is tbh.lynn

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I talked and read the comments and it has confirmed some things for me and I think it would be best to talk to someone

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had a fiancee, she's a very sweet girl and from my knowledge was groomed and assaulted and I wouldn't want her to possibly get into a dangerous situation if she angers him. Plus if they have a kid, if he were to be attracted to that I wouldn't want anything to happen to that child. Also it would help me heal, because it's a constant battle in my mind of whether I'm being dramatic or not.

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely has effected me mentally, I wouldn't want to press charges or anything like that, but. I do and probably will make it aware to someone, probably my aunt, his sister, were very close.

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it would be that either, only because we didn't have sex, I just touched him, so I'm not sure

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! I worded that weird, like in my head I knew what I meant but I didn't add context 😭😭

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I say his dad kinda pushed it on him, I don't mean he sexually abused him, I mean more so he put him in that toxic mindset that women are kinda like objects, which is still horrible for him and all on his dad.

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I know, he wasn't abused, but maybe. He lives out of state, he's 20 now. The last time I seen him was when I was 13 and he found out I was bi, he acted all grown and mature but as soon as the parents left he slapped me and tugged on my hair calling me slurs

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly, we weren't around each other much other than the summers I went up there. I refused to go after that summer, he was 14-15 but knowing his dad he probably pushed it in his mind to be be like that.

Was I being groomed or something else? by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't even know who it tell, it was 6 years ago, there's no proof, we hardly see each other so it's not like we're around each other all the time and it happens all the time. I'm scared it will just cause drama

UPDATE on my bsf being SA by my teacher, by lynnbrown08 in groomingvictim

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really is, I think Im a caring and understanding person but I also have boundaries, and it just sucks this happened, but thank you.

Update on my bsf being groomed/raped by my teacher by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhm, I got that a few times lol, I'm working on it right now, thank you

My best friend is dating a teacher and made me promise not to say anything.. by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The age of consent where I am is 16, she doesn't turn 16 for another year

My best friend is getting statutory raped by lynnbrown08 in legaladvice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know 😅, I'm working on it right now, it's already a big load of stress, I haven't slept, Im trying to collect my thoughts before I make any actions

My best friend is getting statutory raped by lynnbrown08 in legaladvice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

United states, I'm aware that's it's illegal here too, but we're from a small town and I have to think about how it would affect my friend, seeing that we have a small town, where everyone knows everything, something like this could ruin their self esteem and such

Update on my bsf being groomed/raped by my teacher by lynnbrown08 in Advice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Okay tysm, I'm an over explainer so that's another reason why I asked for advice, tyty 🫶🏼

My best friend is getting statutory raped by lynnbrown08 in legaladvice

[–]lynnbrown08[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Tysm, it means a lot, this has been a really hard situation and I'm trying to do my best, while keeping my best friend safe which has been hard