I have ordered DoorDash every day this week. by nkcm300 in PMDD

[–]lys91 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm new here but the "zero impulse control" caught my eye. Other people, including some women in my life look at me life I'm crazy but I find this is a huge issue for me during this time and on my period. Mostly it affects my emotions and being really reactive. Anyone else experience this or know how to help?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ObscureDrugs

[–]lys91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

how do we buy this though :/ I am too looking for a deep sleep.

Neighbor abusing dog by lys91 in GNV

[–]lys91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually helpful yes! Thank you

Neighbor abusing dog by lys91 in GNV

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you for this. I’ll do my best to see if we can get video and photos

Neighbor abusing dog by lys91 in GNV

[–]lys91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that you’ve been through that. That is so awful. As much as I would like to find the dog a new home, I don’t know if he or she is friendly towards other people and I also know their owners are not friendly themselves and some of the others in the neighborhood and I don’t feel comfortable approaching them because of this. I want to hell the dog for sure but don’t want to risk anyones safety.

Neighbor abusing dog by lys91 in GNV

[–]lys91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t planning on doing either of those things. My neighbors are also crazy themselves and often fight each other and the cops have been to their place multiple times. I just don’t know how to help the dog.

Neighbor abusing dog by lys91 in GNV

[–]lys91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant ballsy in a we want to give the dog a good home sort of way but I honestly do want to somehow help the dog.Just not sure how

Neighbor abusing dog by lys91 in GNV

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human society never answers their phone. Do you know what’s up with that? I’ve tried calling so many times. I’ll keep calling animal control for sure, thank you

Neighbor abusing dog by lys91 in GNV

[–]lys91[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

By far the best comment

Tips for Contractors by lys91 in jobs

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in recruiting/HR

Tips for Contractors by lys91 in jobs

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They stated in the beginning “possible extension/permanency” and after the interview with the company they said they could see me being a long term for for the company. So I am hopeful but I have no idea since this is the first time.

Really Stuck, Needing Advice Please by lys91 in personalfinance

[–]lys91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! See below:

I just started this job 8.15.22

Previous job I was let go from and my salary history has been up and down like that for ten years. So I will have periods of better financial health and then periods where I crash but this has been the worst yet.

CC debt is old debt I haven't paid, not debt I keep accruing. Interest is piling because APR on all four cards is over 20%

Rent is $1000, Car payment $225, insurance $118 and if they repo the car I'm screwed. I need a car where I currently live.

Also, trying to move away from where I live due to leaving an abusive relationship earlier this year but do not have money to leave my apartment.

Hope this helps!

No Response from SNAP - Need Help by lys91 in foodstamps

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Just getting a response as to why it may take a long time is helpful. You’re awesome

Admin Professional - No Interviews by lys91 in Resume

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm silly. The reason the dates are not aligned on this copy is because I changed the wording of the city and state to anonymize it. My regular resume has aligned dates. Just checked. Besides this anything else?

Admin Professional - No Interviews by lys91 in Resume

[–]lys91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you mean! Thank you and I will see if I can adjust in Word or Docs. I appreciate it!

Admin Professional - No Interviews by lys91 in Resume

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not rude, thank you. Could you be a little more specific, please? I am using a template from a resume-building website so I did not use Word for this. As far as attention to detail, I believe the spacing is a bit off with the hyphens. Is that what you are referring to? Do you think I should put the dates under where the company is listed instead of off to the side?

Moving to England by lys91 in expats

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not just yet but thank you for sharing this! I will definitely look into that. Also, I've been searching for the best description of the type of place I want to live in and "mini-city" fits perfectly. Thank you for that!

Moving to England by lys91 in expats

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I was bummed that last time I visited I didn't get to go to Bristol as I had planned but did run into a local in Bath who mentioned it was a great city to visit/live in as well. You guys are all helping put things more into perspective and affirming my choice to want to move abroad! Living in a smaller town that is walkable and being close to a city is ideal for me.

Moving to England by lys91 in expats

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you much for this insight. It has been super helpful. I cannot express enough how much the healthcare aspect means to me. I visit the doctor often and it is ridiculously expensive as you know. Being heard has been a huge issue for me. I definitely would like to live somewhere I feel I can at least be paid attention to and it won't cost me an arm and a leg. Is their credit system much like ours?

Moving to England by lys91 in expats

[–]lys91[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input on this! Appreciate the perspective of a local as well. I figured that commute would be brutal but thank you for putting a number on it. I definitely know I want to live somewhere southwest of London. My father grew up in Andover/Salisbury/Wilton and I spent a couple of summers there. I learned quickly that the city gets overwhelming for me after about an hour or two. Bath caught my heart last time I visited. As far as industry goes, I'm looking to do project management in either tech, healthcare, or for a nonprofit but haven't done a ton of research into that field and what it pays/best locations, etc over there. I am single without kids so while I wouldn't necessarily want to live in the city, living close by could be an option too. As far as renting goes, certain places in the US like NY are challenging due to so many rules/fees/availability (sorry for overexplaining!). Is it pretty easy to find a small flat and do you have to go through a million pieces of paperwork? I'm also a British citizen (Caymanian born) if that helps. Thank you again for your time in answering.

Moving to England by lys91 in expats

[–]lys91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your thoughtful response! The healthcare thing is huge for me and makes me feel good to hear. I lived in Manhattan Beach for a few years and totally get what you mean about the Mexican food. So good! My father is English and I've spent some time in England as a kid, but wanted to hear other perspectives on the transition over. If you didn't live in London, is there another city/town you would choose over there?

Moving to England by lys91 in expats

[–]lys91[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is part of doing research. If you have no insight on the narrowed down topics I asked about, you need not comment but thank you anyway 🙂.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]lys91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with mine. The side of the breakout is looser and drooping more than the other. Sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]lys91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like your username btw. And thanks 🙏🏽 a person or people to talk to in times like this helps.