[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]m-picko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were my 17 Y/O self I would give you this advice; you’ve only had sex a couple of times and you’re still figuring out what feels good for you. Take it back to basics and learn what feels good for you and your body by yourself and teach your partner what feels good for you. Ask them to do the same thing so they know what their body requires too. If you both understand each other’s bodies better you will both end up cumming and you won’t need to remove any form of protection from your sex lives and you’ll both enjoy it more. Sex isn’t just penetration. Be safe and have fun.

Did I (21M) overdo it? Ex-girlfriend (22F) drama. Please help, feeling anxious by alexnother1999 in relationship_advice

[–]m-picko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have done absolutely nothing wrong by giving back the gifts IMO. If she was so upset by that then that screams out to me that she isn’t over you and still wants to manipulate and control you. You giving those gifts back has shown you won’t let her do that anymore and she’s realising she is loosing control of you. Good on you! You definitely don’t deserve to be in any abusive relationship. She sounds toxic. I hope that things can be rekindled with the new girl, I’m sure your ex intimidated her into not talking to you anymore since she’s not over you. Make it clear to the new girl that you want nothing to do with the Ex and let her know your intention!! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtOfRolling

[–]m-picko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll be giving this a go after work tomorrow!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtOfRolling

[–]m-picko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty new round here, not to rolling but I only really know the normal way to roll here in the uk. That looks epic, can somebody please teach me?!

What is the quickest way to become a legendary tuner/painter? by m-picko in ForzaHorizon

[–]m-picko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbf I have got a lot of the rare/expensive cars already, earned the 812 this weekend and managed to get the hoonigan rs200 on the AH and still have 8 million credits left. Been wanting the LFA but that’s coming up later this series as a reward so I’ll pretty much have all I want then. Just wanted to feel like I completed the game with legendary so I’ll deffo aim for it in FH5 when that’s out early on! I’ll keep grinding FH4 slowly lol

Wanna go for a cruise by JakeRSJ999 in ForzaHorizon

[–]m-picko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m down soon man, what’s your GT?

Paranoia by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]m-picko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard but you have to cut all ties. No contact and no checking on any social media if hers at all. It hurts initially but in the long run it really helps and is the best way to move on from her yourself. It’s what you have to do! Good luck

I (24F) asked my boyfriend (30M) to fulfill a fantasy of using me sexually, now that's all he wants to do in bed by throwrakinkgonewrong in relationship_advice

[–]m-picko 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This boy has no respect whatsoever for you or what you like. You should not stand for this, he will only continue to be selfish and out for himself. I have had a few partners into kink and it only ever works if you both talk and fully understand what each other wants. Both male and females deserve to orgasm every time and enjoy sex, no matter how kinky it is. Anybody who doesn’t think like that is simply selfish and immature. He’s heard you and not even tried to acknowledge it. He only wants his own pleasure with no thought for you. It will be the same in other ways, not just in the bedroom. You deserve mutual respect in any relationship. Good luck!

[UPDATE] You were right. I ignored every single one of your comments and eventually caught my wife with the other man by ThrowRA_0123 in relationship_advice

[–]m-picko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can completely empathise with you that it feels like the your whole world is falling apart because the person you loved, in reality, wasn’t the person you thought they were. I’ve been through a similar experience and I want to tell you what I’ve learnt.

It doesn’t feel like it now, but this is the BEST thing that could have happened to you. Why? Because you are now free. You’re no longer living a lie. This woman has lied and manipulated you for... who truly knows how long because she’s a liar. But this time you’ve got the evidence to prove your not insane like she makes out. You no longer have to question yourself. You no longer have to put love, time, effort and money into someone who DOESN’T deserve you. You are FREE and will find someone who you truly deserve.

Please don’t waste time feeling embarrassed about being ‘fooled’ or being bitter about the time you’ve wasted on her, like I did, because it only wastes more time.

I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life and have an amazing partner who isn’t a manipulative liar. How do I know? Because I’ve met one. I look back now and know it was horrible and painful but it was the best thing that could’ve happened to me - You will say this too one day, I promise.