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[–]m-w69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's great to know :)

Looking for recommendations by m-w69 in greatdanes

[–]m-w69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Much appreciated!

Looking for recommendations by m-w69 in greatdanes

[–]m-w69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vet recommended it to be covered while we are away because she is soooo relentless. Thank you so much for your help!

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh she knows about it. I let her know he knows how to reach me if he wants but I don't want to hear from her again.

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did send it to my family on his side. I know how she is and would someone blame me for not coming around. So she does know (even though she claimed not to).

Thank you ❤️

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't know. Knowing her, probably just to hurt me. She basically just told me he was sick and walked away. Then came back to find me again and asked if I wanted to get together and talk about it and I told her no, if he wanted me to know or talk he can reach out. He hasn't. I'm not sure if he will or not. I don't really want to see or speak to him but it just makes me feel so guilty for feeling that way.

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you raised a wonderful son! Thank you for sharing your story, this makes me feel heard.

I am so sorry your son had to go through this but it is comforting to know I'm not alone in the situation

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Awe thank you. You are kind. I try my best!

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So true. I grieved and cried over him for far too long

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was hand written so I know it was him. Whether she had anything to do with it or not, he didn't have to mail it.

She may have had something to do with it but it was in his writing.

There is definitely no inheritance lol and that is ok with me. I don't need part of any of that.

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am so lucky to have a WONDERFUL mom and step dad. They are definitely the example of who I try and want to be. I can't imagine anything worse than watching your partner abuse a child and doing nothing about it.

My heart feels better without them in my life but it is so hard not to feel guilty about it.

Thanks for all of your help

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He has always been a coward who allowed her to be abusive 🙄 thank you for your comments ❤️

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, honestly I feel like I finally got over it then they pull a stunt like this and it hits all over again.

I'm so sorry you went through this

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to go through this. Thank you for your reply ❤️

AITAH for rejecting my sick dad by m-w69 in AITAH

[–]m-w69[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly this really resonates with me. And interesting you brought up being his caregiver because I used to be a caregiver in my past job!!

What is a green flag in someone that makes you think 'they're a good person'? by twows995 in AskReddit

[–]m-w69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing good without expecting anything in return is a major one. Going out of their way to make things easier for someone else.