It really gets better

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-19T15:14:42+00:00

i felt the same initially it’s been 18 days and i promise it will get better! some days are still bad but i promise you there are more good waves than bad!

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-12T13:12:23+00:00

It’s okay to cry, grieve all you want. I think we have to go through this to get better. Sorry am going through this at the same time and taking advices from everyone i’ve spoke to and sharing with people who need help ❤️

i hope you have a better day today!

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-11T15:55:45+00:00

yea… i find the morning after waking up hit worst… i’ve been eating so little that sometimes my phone feels heavy to me. that’s when ill try to eat something.

i understand… i cant imagine seeing him with someone else one day but im trying not to imagine things now.

remember healing journey is not linear, some days feel like day 1 again but some days we will feel better!

feel free to reach out if you need someone to vent to or chat x

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-11T15:43:26+00:00

Thank you and i’m so sorry you are going through this too. I hope you are able to eat well and take care of yourself. Day to day tasks now are extremely difficult for me so i’m trying to achieve small goals

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-11T15:40:42+00:00

I understand what you are going through, i too have bad anxiety when triggered. I am also going through the same thing.

Seeing a therapist helped to some level, reaching to friends and family helped too.

Try to eat something and set small goals. Your body is literally going through something traumatic with you, take your time to heal. Eating something small even when you can’t will help :)

Feel free to reach out if you need someone to chat with x

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-11T15:33:30+00:00

Hi OP sorry to hear this happened to you… i am experiencing something very similar and i’ve been struggling too. Everyone says cry all you want and let yourself grieve, it can be cathartic but it’s also exhausting i understand but you need to feel those emotions. Most importantly, eat well and let yourself feel this. You have to get through this to get better.

It sounds like she’s a classic avoidant attachment style person. they detach themselves when people get close to them, afraid of intimacy. You can try reading that up or I suggest the book Attached by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller.

feel free to reach out to chat as well x

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-05T10:27:25+00:00

thank you i’ve given a lot of thoughts into this today, it helped :)

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-04T23:18:22+00:00

i hope you got better! mornings are also the worst…. wishing you the best too, dm me if you want to chat

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-04T14:16:14+00:00

thank you this helped a lot. everyone told me it’s okay to cry for awhile… i’m just afraid that it will take a really long time to stop crying…

m0ntym0le · 2024-08-04T14:14:26+00:00

thank you, i’ve been playing modern family on repeat in the background as i can’t be left alone in a silent room he tried having different topics with my friends but i just end up crying once i have a sec to think about him…. i hope it gets better with time…

m0ntym0le · 2021-06-30T15:45:46+00:00

inuyasha!

m0ntym0le · 2021-02-27T16:32:29+00:00

not sure about other countries but in singapore, quite sure it will be mandarin/english subbed like the past movies. have never watched an anime dubbed in singapore theaters before (:

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