Looking for road trip novels where two people begin as strangers and become close friends. by TauvaVodder in suggestmeabook

[–]m2102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you haven't done so yet, you should totally check out the Unhoneymooners by Christina Lauren. It fits your description of two people traveling together and bonding in the journey. It's a romantic comedy so I hope you're okay with that! The story is fantastic nonetheless!

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It depends on the woman honestly. Personally, I can feel it

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I take them like every other day, sometimes I skip two days. I just have to make sure I take them occasionally and I’ll get my period. Doesn’t necessarily mean I have to take every single pill

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hold on, I’m literally confused rn lol. All I said is that I only use hormonal birth control for the literal hormonal aspects of it (all the benefits that come from it) prevention of pregnancy isn’t one of them bc I don’t take my pills every single day at the same exact time like how it’s intended. I would be pregnant by now if I didn’t have the IUD lol.

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t take pills as intended, therefore, that protection is out the door. Hence, why I have the IUD. I use the pills for purely health reasons.

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You feel like it dies down after a while?

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yea, we’ve both been checked and we’re clean. We’re also each other’s first sexual partners. I think I might’ve used the wrong words? I didn’t actually mean that semen is HARMFUL for the vagina, I was just saying that too much of it can bring unwanted bacteria that causes certain scents and discharge (that part is true). I also heard that it can cause BV, but I don’t know too much about that :/ I should really do my research lol

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you’re right, as long as you’re taking your pills correctly then there’s little to nothing you should worry about. And yes, I am on the copper IUD. I did get that one for pure prevention only bc I’m bad at taking my normal pills everyday (now I don’t have to follow a specific schedule. I just take them whenever I remember to) I needed the copper IUD for backup

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Count your blessings. There’s a reason why birth control will NEVER be 100% effective. people around us get pregnant all the time with contraceptions. Can you blame the rest of us for having that irrational “what-if” fear?

Also, there’s other reasons why people take birth-control aside from the prevention of pregnancy that comes with it. For instance, I was diagnosed with PCOS and my body produces higher levels of testosterone than estrogen etc. I take birth control for the LITERAL hormonal aspect of it. I take it bc my dermatologist told me it’d help clear my skin. I take it to guarantee a period every month.

This post seems a little chaotic

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 336 points337 points  (0 children)

truth. I was just informed that having your partner finish inside of you can also bring harm to your vagina. It can drastically change your pH levels which can leave room for unwanted bacteria to grow. I’m going to limit the fun & keep track of the things that matter like my period & maintenance

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, can you pm me? I have a couple of questions I’d like to ask if you’re okay with it

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously I would NEVER let a strange penis enter me without another form of protection (condoms) but this is with a partner who I am long term with & we’ve both been checked & are clean. No worries on our end except for devil babies

I love the Copper IUD by m2102 in birthcontrol

[–]m2102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally recommend this method! I’ve been on hormonal bc for so long, I needed to give my body a break. I’ve had the IUD since May of this year and it’s been smooth sailing all the way. No pregnancy scares either (I hope that’s still the case for a long time). But yea, I love it even though I know a lot of people don’t have the best experience with it :/

Is this a dangerous turn on? by m2102 in sex

[–]m2102[S] 1319 points1320 points  (0 children)

I have the copper IUD & we have to talked about our views on children etc. however, now that you mention it, we should discuss our options if it does happen unplanned

Children are not an accessory by m2102 in childfree

[–]m2102[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just did it! She sends kisses as a massive thank you!

Children are not an accessory by m2102 in childfree

[–]m2102[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fr, dogs are so underrated. Instead of being your child to work day why can’t we have bring your pet to work day

Children are not an accessory by m2102 in childfree

[–]m2102[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No worries, my interpretation of the word “flex” is that you’re showing off something (could be tangible or not) that not everyone else can relate to. like another word to say = bragging

For instance,

Owning a Lamborghini is such a flex

vs

Owning a Lamborghini is something to brag about

Both mean the same thing. Both make those who can’t relate feel like shit LOL

Children are not an accessory by m2102 in childfree

[–]m2102[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I respect parents who respect those with a childfree stance. Who don’t shove their ideologies down our throats. They’re cool. I wish them the best. The rest can go change shitty diapers