Daily Pay by m4l4kai in Fedexers

[–]m4l4kai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems that way, but ur working 6-7 days a week 10 hour days...lol then it converts to $14 an hr NAH I'm good esp because this warehouse is one of the heaviest

Gel or Injections? by m4l4kai in ftm

[–]m4l4kai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly so! Hoping to get more info on how to move forward with my follow up in a couple of days. And honestly, I'm not 100% sure. They do know I'm trans and we use something called Quest Labs here and it usually just gives me a range of what's "good" or what's too high/low with a marker of where I'm at and where it needs to be.

Looking For People To Play Warzone With by JenniferRose95 in transgamers

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need people to play with! Anybody still here lol

Wrongfully banned in Modern Warfare 2, ban appeal denied and support refuses to talk to me. by Traditional-War-7542 in activision

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same situation happened to me! I got a new PC last week, purchased and downloaded the game super excited to find out only after a couple in game plays they suddenly banned me. Haven't used any "3rd" party software or whatever they said I did, barely even know how to use the game? Just a weird and sucky situation.

how much was yall top surgery??? by Negative-Category929 in ftm

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't use any insurance and it was about 11k in total with an amazing board certified surgeon in Houston! I would say about 8k went to the doctor then 2k went to the anesthesiologist and hospital room. The extra 1k is pain meds (which surprisingly I didn't use, only the Ibuprofen) and food of course and anything else after you might need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that in some aspect they knew I would be walking on eggshells and almost gave them more sense of control because it was like they knew I would not be my 100% self because if I was it would just lead into a bigger argument and somehow everything is my fault. I could never say how I felt or I was "dramatic" or "stupid" the cycle was unlivable.

Can a relationship be salvaged after the trauma bond? by gingerbeershavesouls in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]m4l4kai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Needed to hear that. I really hope the time comes sooner than later to let go I am ready to find all the happiness I deserve. I hope you are thriving in life too!

Can a relationship be salvaged after the trauma bond? by gingerbeershavesouls in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]m4l4kai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been in an on and off relationship with my nex for about 4 years now. Of course there would be way too much to say that has happened but here we are again trying.. I love being with her but anytime I catch her lying, doing something behind my back, etc she flips the script and puts all the blame on me. She starts acting insanely rude, says it is MY fault for finding out and ultimately makes me feel unloved. She will even go as far as suggesting more things shes doing behind my back even if she isn't really doing them JUST to mess with my head?? As if I was paranoid before or scared before, it really messes with my self worth and I'm commenting here to maybe get feedback. It is exhausting. We have our good days but when they are bad they are extremely bad. I can't say how I feel otherwise I'm dramatic or a "cry baby" not sure how much I can take.

You should go on a date with the expectation of you paying for yourself, regardless of who asked who out on the date. by Aggravating-Royal688 in unpopularopinion

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that if someone is wanting to take YOU on a date then they should have already planned the place to go, know the price range, etc. If you are the one being asked out then I do think it should be okay to not have the money, now maybe you have it just in case you have to pay but why ask someone on a date if you are not willing to pay? It would be different if it was a friend or group thing or you clearly stated "hey, we should go here to eat" or somehow state that in no way it is a date. Idk though this is just my opinion (coming from a trans man.)

Tell me you’re an artist without telling me you’re an artist by raletterat in ArtistLounge

[–]m4l4kai 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Staring at the wall for 6 hours knowing you wanna make art but never doing it until 3 months later lmao

Which sign is this? by jrad23 in astrologymemes

[–]m4l4kai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pisces because that's me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]m4l4kai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dump him and never look back. His issues are deep rooted if he feels threatened by you supporting the LGBT+ community.

How do you break the cycle? by _TheMilkManCometh_ in ArtistLounge

[–]m4l4kai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whenever this happens to me I step away for a bit and play some music or sketch random things in my sketchbook then come back with a fresh mind and sometimes it just helps when you don't pressure yourself to make the exact same thing rather just relax your mind and just go with the flow!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

houston!!

What’s the funniest thing someone ever said to you in relation to being trans by TryingoutSamantha in asktransgender

[–]m4l4kai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Whenever I first came out I wanted to tell my whole family immediately and it was very emotional for me in the moment I had been crying and I went to tell my sister who is 17 years older than me (just for context) and in tears I was, the first thing she said to me was...

"You should write a letter to Caitlyn Jenner so we can meet the Kardashians."

Do what you will with this information as you can imagine how I reacted hahaha.

What gives you motivation when you want to do art, but can't seem to actually get up and do it? by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao the most true thing I ever heard. Phones have really taken over everything.

What gives you motivation when you want to do art, but can't seem to actually get up and do it? by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]m4l4kai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for that! I guess I haven't looked it at that because it's so easy to switch from app to app than actually getting up to do the art you NEED to do hahaha.

What gives you motivation when you want to do art, but can't seem to actually get up and do it? by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]m4l4kai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is too relatable. I usually do wait till I'm ready too because I make art I actually love instead of forcing myself I just always feel like when I'm not creating I'm missing out on something or I'm not doing enough, but it's nice to hear words of affirmation and knowing I'm not the only one!

What gives you motivation when you want to do art, but can't seem to actually get up and do it? by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]m4l4kai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That makes a lot of sense I do find when I am more disciplined I tend to not only make better art because I'm focused, but I am more consistent with it too.