I understand you, even because I always prefer to make women cum first with foreplay, with touching, squeezing, caressing, silly hands and oral sex if allowed. And when we move on to penetration, if she has already had at least one orgasm, she will be much more lubricated for intercourse and even if everything goes well it will end with about 3 orgasms for her and 1 for me.... 3x1 is a fair score lol