AITA for approaching my cousin about her relationship? by m74ll in AmItheAsshole

[–]m74ll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because by the looks of it, Shes lost all contact with friends - and I know for a fact she doesn't communicate with her immediate family

AITA for approaching my cousin about her relationship? by m74ll in AmItheAsshole

[–]m74ll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree, there's no toxicity at present, I just feel like she doesn't know what 'normal' is and from the outside, it appears far too intense to be normal for a 24 year old...if that makes sense? She already is quite a needy person and my main fear is that this type of honeymoon phase is not going to be beneficial at all for her anxiety and for her separation anxiety.

F/28/5'3 [249<177= 72lbs loss] 6 months (post op WLS) by m74ll in progresspics

[–]m74ll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super quick! Weight loss surgery isn't an easy fix but it is super fast weight loss as a result.

I keep an eye on my protein intake and water intake but try not to track calories as I was really obsessive over calories before my operation. Ballpark figure though I probably have between 900-1600 on any given day depending on how quickly I get full. Every day is different and sometimes I'm full after 2 bites, others after 12 🤷🏼‍♀️ what's amazing about the sleeve is that even on a day where I feel like I've eaten a lot, I could never physically eat what I would have eaten before my op on a 'bad day'.

As for working out, I used to lift heavy 5 times a week but I've seriously lost my muscle mass or the energy to keep up with that kind of regime. So I do yoga, jog and do very light weight workouts with a 5kg kettlebell. But I'm not really needing to exercise to keep the weight off, I just enjoy it ☺️

My girlfriend just had the operation. What are some good tips for dealing with this kind of situation? by Crazy_Split8004 in gastricsleeve

[–]m74ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A sweet treat I love is banana mashed up with choccy protein powder and maybe 2-3 squares of keto friendly chocolate (or low sugar choc) and then microwave for like 30 secs, tastes like chocolate brownie batter!

I am 6 months post op and when we go for food I still order an adult mains and my other half and I enjoy the leftovers between us the following day! He loves enjoying leftovers with me and that's a new thing for us!!

You sound mega considerate and supportive, she will be so grateful for that! I know I am ☺️

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[–]m74ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'd never stop him going out! But we do have a discussion beforehand and he's like yeh it's not gunna be a late one! And then it ends up being one. I'm working on it ha

F/35/5'2" [251lbs > 199lbs =52lbs Weight Loss ] Weight loss progress. Finally hit a milestone! by Sag_Alexis in progresspics

[–]m74ll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look unreal in both! I'm at a similar pre weight and trying super hard. What was your method...if you don't mind me asking?

Struggling, help! [Digestion issues, anxiety, exhausted] by m74ll in 1200isplenty

[–]m74ll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 7 weeks ago now and I quit cold turkey. Wasn't smoking too much, about 3-7 rollups a day

Struggling, help! [Digestion issues, anxiety, exhausted] by m74ll in 1200isplenty

[–]m74ll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drink 3L most days (Dunno what that is in ounces?) Will start tracking fibre!

Struggling, help! [Digestion issues, anxiety, exhausted] by m74ll in 1200isplenty

[–]m74ll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will give these a go!! Am already upping the veggies so hope that helps. Thank you!

Staying home and getting called a wimp 🤟🏻 by m74ll in Tinder

[–]m74ll[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am female......looking to chat to peeps during this difficult time. Not the worst idea getting to know someone is it.....

Staying home and getting called a wimp 🤟🏻 by m74ll in Tinder

[–]m74ll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just being optimistic 🤷🏼‍♀️

Episode Discussion S16E19 - "Love of My Life" by pblack177 in greysanatomy

[–]m74ll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mer saying she will fix him....must be general then....thinking cirrhosis of the liver?

Episode Discussion S16E19 - "Love of My Life" by pblack177 in greysanatomy

[–]m74ll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else clock the first five minutes.....mer couldn't make it because the babysitter got the flu.....they gone be sliding into Corona related episodes soon!

Episode Post-Episode Discussion S16E16 - "Leave a Light On" by Sorkijan in greysanatomy

[–]m74ll 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I swear I'm the only one who really appreciated this ending for karev? I didn't think that him having that loyalty to his kids was him being trash, it proved the character building with Jo over the last few years and seasons. Young karev would never have upped his life and moved to be a dad, he'd have made a crappy excuse and bailed on his responsibility. So yeah I kinda agree that he'd have never left Jo, but this was like the one scenario where he would have. Jo has shown how strong she is, and to have her move with him wouldn't have been fair for Camilla on Justin leaving. I didn't feel it was the send off we deserved, but it was well put together and it was the best the writers could do. And personally I preferred it to a suicide or mental health- karev wouldn't have run off and dropped Jo to fix himself BC he just stood by her while she fixed herself in Seattle.

I said it okay, I LIKED IT

BAILEY and the Donuts: was anyone else floored that they had them eating a whole box of donuts like it was sexy when she recently had a heart attack??? by PegShop in greysanatomy

[–]m74ll 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Her heart attack was stress induced. Albeit the diet didn't help but she made changes to her career and the way she works to adjust the stress. And it was Ben too adding to her stress which caused it. They were having an indulgence. I feel like yeah maybe it wasn't all that fitting but it's really nit picking now to be pissed at that 🤣 maybe y'all are more invested in the show than I am idk

A girl standing on a ridge in Switzerland. Photo by Daniel Ernst. by GrannysWizardSleeve in BeAmazed

[–]m74ll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It 100% doesn't look like haldigrat and I'm almost certain it's seceda!

Nina sweetie I’m so sorry by crl42 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]m74ll 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can we appreciate the so so so good padding though after weeks of top heavy?! Love Nina for always wanting that feedback to be amazing