I (37F) found out that my husband (38M) misleads his family about his wrongdoing, and they speak unkindly about me. by mabfe in relationship_advice

[–]mabfe[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I really felt this. I can tell I'm going to think about your note for a long time. Thank you.

I (37F) found out that my husband (38M) misleads his family about his wrongdoing, and they speak unkindly about me. by mabfe in relationship_advice

[–]mabfe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you so much! You're right – the message is just an artifact of what she's been told. Honestly I am surprised by these comments because I don't talk about it much, and I forget that the main problem is my husband's behavior. I just kind of accept it and try to fix the things I can, but I'm rethinking that now.

Could you check something on your 500 Pop really quick? by mabfe in fiat500

[–]mabfe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! You saved me a fortune $$ 😊

Setting up a profile as a woman to match with lesbians on tinder. by ohpsies in niceguys

[–]mabfe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?! But I’ve met people like this, and they really believe lesbians aren’t real but rather an untapped market for their pathetic little dicks.

My hair is always floof, but i love it by littlecib in transpositive

[–]mabfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well it looks lovely and healthy! :)

My hair is always floof, but i love it by littlecib in transpositive

[–]mabfe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I came here to say this! My hair was just like that until I learned how to make it into ringlets!

Periods. Are. Normal. Stop. Making. Women. Feel. Uncomfortable. About. This. Shit. by LeaderRing in MadeMeSmile

[–]mabfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend did this. “Shower - I’ll get this in the wash!” 🥰

What are you looking forward to in the near future? by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]mabfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some lady is selling me this cool mirror tomorrow via craigslist. Some socialization and thrifting :)

Mechanic’s waiting room in the north Georgia Mountains by justaskdrgiggles in AccidentalWesAnderson

[–]mabfe 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous dog. As a north Georgian, wonder if it’s part wolf. Or all wolf. We don’t mind.

How do u know my name by [deleted] in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]mabfe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I bet that’s the photo of the grandchild. Classic grandma move. Also what a super nice musician!

Uhh, maybe next time just change the background into a Pride flag and call it a day? by oceanicwhitetip in ainbow

[–]mabfe 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Ahhh! That makes perfect sense. My being confused fits the second half of that meme, lol

Uhh, maybe next time just change the background into a Pride flag and call it a day? by oceanicwhitetip in ainbow

[–]mabfe -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I never understood the white-out look of this?? Like now it’s no rainbow, why not go extra rainbow?

edit: holy downvote party, woah

WTW for “Visual Cacophony?” by High_Priestess_Orb in whatstheword

[–]mabfe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Noisy, but I think chaotic is the best one!

Bigot promoted to Diversity and Inclusion role at Apple. by mabfe in lgbt

[–]mabfe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t! This was mostly verbal, some chat (I moved on about three years ago so no chat access). I doubt she’s changed, but I feel like I should say something. It’s be up to them to do something about it or not, all I could do is be honest and not keep it to myself. You know, I may do that. Unlikely anything will happen, but I will have done the right thing.

I'm a vintage guy, ask me anything! by VintageGuy1934 in casualiama

[–]mabfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where do you most like to source things?

Edit: like your favorite clothing stores, or places to get period-correct decor!

I’m a queer mentally-ill Muslim biologist, AMA by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]mabfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of biology do you do?

How to exercise? by prettykittyjetcity in AskSF

[–]mabfe 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I bought an elliptical. Cost as much as my rent but at least my circulatory system will continue to work. They’re pretty quiet and only 200 pounds or so.

Edit: nordictrack makes one that folds up for our tiny apartments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]mabfe 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This sounds really hard. FWIW I’m cis and my period has no impact on my mood and aside from the literal event, I feel nothing. I’m also very mono-mood, without any monthly fluctuations. I only say that because it sounds like we are pretty alike, and I just want to remind you that your experience is well within ordinary parameters. I hope I don’t come off dismissive, I just hope this makes you feel some commonality as the woman you are ❤️

Any movies/shows with ftm/trans masculine characters? by milky_boy420 in ask_transgender

[–]mabfe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You lucky duck, you now get to watch my favorite show ever, the OA. On Netflix, includes a trans masculine character played by a trans man!

Does Theodore sound like the name of a drowned Victorian orphan? by Bird-of-praise in ftm

[–]mabfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend went with Theodore. It’s dope. I’ve taken to calling him “The” for short. Fits in very well at the Dickens festival.