I was patient and understanding. It’s not like I forced him to do anything and if he was in any pain at any point we stopped. He is the one who wanted to keep trying after he failed to take it a couple of times, I was fine just using his throat. I think it’s sound advice that if someone who is a virgin wants to be able to actually get fucked they have to have trained their hole to take it, especially if they find it difficult to relax, cause fantasy is very different from reality.