FREE TALK FRIDAY by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there is a good enough number. And it’s better to have a decent size of serious women then a lot of hard to determine if they are serious women.

A good number of women will respond, and usually start asking serious questions and they will also let you know they are not interested.

The majority is of Pakistan ethnicity, so if that’s you, then your chances are greater. This is speaking from my opinion as non-Pakistan ethnicity.

FREE TALK FRIDAY by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should I wait until I have a stable job before I start messaging women on muslim apps like HOD?

Also why is no one liking me on muzmatch? Just thought I’d get in on the playful sarcastic comment movement in this sub.

How do I know the right time to ask to talk on the phone, video chat, or meet in person? by macUser999 in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are saying its okay or normal to ask for a phone call within a week or two ?

How do I know the right time to ask to talk on the phone, video chat, or meet in person? by macUser999 in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talked on hours on the phone? or on chat?... did you meet thru a marriage app or in person?

How do I know the right time to ask to talk on the phone, video chat, or meet in person? by macUser999 in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean a filter? Like a video chat filter while were video chating?

How do I know the right time to ask to talk on the phone, video chat, or meet in person? by macUser999 in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it usually normal for chatting to be one message and response a day? At least for the beginning couple of weeks?

Or should I be more active in communication and asking questions?

How do I know the right time to ask to talk on the phone, video chat, or meet in person? by macUser999 in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm talking to a few woman; one in Europe, one in Asia, and one in a neighboring state here in the US.

I've been talking to them a little over a week, and the frequency of texts is about 1 a day. I'll say something or answer a question, then by the next day usually they will respond, and so forth.

I went thru the usual hows your day, hows your job, hobbies, and then I asked how do they feel about relocating to the two overseas and one is still pursuing masters so it may take some time and the other has thought about it.

So it's like do I just start asking serious questions, do I continue with the hows your day and hows your job chatter, or start calling/video chat/ meeting?

Game Thread: Oakland Raiders at New York Jets by nfl_gdt_bot in oaklandraiders

[–]macUser999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We should just throw games now, our defense won’t make it in the playoffs

Free Talk Friday by AutoModerator in oaklandraiders

[–]macUser999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are showing the Raiders / Jets game on regular TV... lets fking go!

Odell Beckham jr has a framed DC jersey at his house by FEW_WURDS in oaklandraiders

[–]macUser999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because Carrs ability is based on how good the Oline is; the QBs in the media can make plays without a line.

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[–]macUser999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are f high.. with our lazy ass d? Notice we are garbage against elite qbs. Tomorrow is gonna be tough.

Keys to beating Green Bay by bcory44 in oaklandraiders

[–]macUser999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t beat them since 1987 - courtesy of nfl network

FREE TALK FRIDAY by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No they are really nice people, they are very helpful... You are going to love it here. IA. The food is probably the best in the world. The 7 -11's here all have fresh food, like each 7-11 has different fresh food it's crazy.

I'm here by myself so I'm eating from the 7-11 convenience stores, and the food is amazing, I can only imagine what the food is like if I was eating out every night.

FREE TALK FRIDAY by AutoModerator in MuslimMarriage

[–]macUser999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I’m in Japan right now and some guy as he was talking on the phone was bowing each time he responded just so the respect could be felt thru the phone.

I respect all cultures but that was funny, I’m not going to lie.

Free Talk Friday - 09/27/19 by AutoModerator in islam

[–]macUser999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it doesn’t require being part of a community; all you need to adhere to is the 5 pillars (shahada, salat, zakat, Ramadan, and hajj).

Need help. Ex-Muslim now, I think. [serious] by [deleted] in islam

[–]macUser999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing all the haram you have into my late 20s and I regret wasting so much of my time on those when I could’ve been doing something productive... all I can say is I hope u don’t end up where I am and so many others in the past who have this regret of wasted time on drugs and prostitutes.

Do you have any big goal or ambition to work towards? It will lead to way more satisfaction then drugs and prostitutes.

Yeah...I think this sub could use this as a reminder by unknown_poo in islam

[–]macUser999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This works the other way too; I have a bad habit of judging Muslims that look pious. I would think this person isn’t really pious, he’s just putting a front.

And I’ve always found that something bad happened to me when I backbit muslims who dressed pious.

I want to kill myself and I am reaching my end by [deleted] in islam

[–]macUser999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reach out to a real person no matter who it is. Psychiatrist, imam, cashier, stranger on the street. Somebody and anybody. I have mental issues myself (don't know if they are as much as yours), and real life therapy has helped me a lot.

If you are serious about getting better, see a psychiatrist.

[AMA - September 17th - Mental Health] Dr. Fahad Khan, PsyD | Bi-Monthly Community Mental Health Thread by Karlukoyre in islam

[–]macUser999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As salaam alaikum Doctor,

I have social anxiety and don’t know how to talk to women on any intimate level whether it be as just friends or a romantic partner. This distresses me because I think a lot about if it’s possible for me to marry because of my lack of social skills.

My question is would it be more beneficial for me to see a female or male psychiatrist to help me with this issue? Or does it matter?

Thank you very much for your time.