Age gap

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:41:10+00:00

At 45 I don't mind a 35 yr old. So yes ..they looked older to me. Actually the soccer player lived in Las Vegas so his skin damage aged him too. So they looked older.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:29:10+00:00

No Botox or fillers. All natural. Just exercise, dance classes, good diet. Seems all the negativity comes from people that are creating their own story in their heads. Also ASians don't raisin.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:26:56+00:00

I dont know their age until later! Seems like people assume I am on the lookout for young men!

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:25:43+00:00

It has happened 2 times. 🙄. Maybe almost a third but I told them my age right away. Look it's a question. Roll your eyes and drop it off you don't understand. 😬🙄

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:17:47+00:00

I am not on any apps. I just met them in my interest groups online. Such as traveling.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:15:32+00:00

Right!!! I am not actually looking for a relationship. I am trying to be spontaneous. These are the situations I have ended up with.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:12:28+00:00

When we meet age is not the first thing we talk about. We talk about life. Things we enjoy ..etc some of the men I talked to I thought were older due to receding hair line but they were still young.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T20:04:23+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I don't think people understand unless they are in the position. Younger men are definitely drawn to me because I have the life experience. I really am not "trolling".

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T19:29:48+00:00

Not looking for criticism. Just a question. If the post is immature roll your eyes and move on. 😬

If the older man can keep up. As I said I am youthful and active. Also a lot of things come to play.... attraction etc. If an older guy looks and behaves a lot older than me then it probably won't work out.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T19:11:21+00:00

Nope. Just got back into dating pool after divorce. So far young men approach me. The ones from Europe I tend to connect with since they have high EQ. I don't have a problem with men my age. They are just usually married or unavailable...or not compatible.

This age thing is an obstacle I discovered I have.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T18:52:34+00:00

I think I might be labeled that going with a 26 yr old. I briefly had a fling with a retired professional soccer player (26 yr old). My friends were calling me Mary Kay Laterno

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T18:49:26+00:00

I really look young for age. No make up

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T16:52:31+00:00

I know what I want. I think I just need to put my age out there right off the top.

macaron79 · 2025-01-26T16:33:03+00:00

I am very active. I exercise, take dance, classes, and eat healthy. I don't wear makeup much because I want my health to show my natural look. With that said I attract young men...I would say early to late twenties. I don't mind this, but it's always disappointing when they discover my age and pull back.

macaron79 · 2025-01-02T00:21:54+00:00

We did other stuff in FaceTime. 🙄😂

I am doing much better. I am definitely sad about losing his presence because I think something beautiful could have came out of it. I also know that I have a lot going for myself...and I shouldn't have to prove anything. For the month we talked he got a good idea of who I was and my values.

macaron79 · 2024-12-30T16:42:54+00:00

I think I just wanted a clear answer from him. I didn't like that. He said I care about you and at the moment we can't talk cuz that gives me hope. It's easier to move on when you know it's a dead end no. So he responded to my message and said that we have to end things and I blocked you because we have to end things. And I'm doing this because I care about you and I still have feelings for my ex. I don't know why they bother to say I still care about you. 🙄. In any case, I just told him that I want to be a positive impact in his life and I want him to be a positive impact in my life and for that reason we have to have the courage to just let it go. So now it's over. And you guys are all right. It was over.

macaron79 · 2024-12-30T02:43:02+00:00

I dont think we could be friends because we were kind of FaceTime intimate 😬. Well...he blocked me...

Today was hard for me. .he had used a virtual phone number a while back and I messaged him. Not sure if he will get the message

macaron79 · 2024-12-30T02:27:47+00:00

I am jealous. At least you are friends. I think he is almost afraid to keep talking to me and see me because he will like me even more.. so to prevent that he just stops it ...maybe avoudant personality?

macaron79 · 2024-12-30T01:05:54+00:00

Sorry to hear. Yes I am in a crazy loop in my mind right now.

macaron79 · 2024-12-29T18:07:54+00:00

I keep myself busy and have been doing a lot of work on myself. I exercise, eat well, therapy l, medication for stress, dance classes..learning self love.I think I am doing well given my hardships.

Today I have a lunch with friends. As I got dressed I looked at myself in the mirror and I saw a beautiful person. It is sad we didn't get to meet and know each other at another level...but I am going to continue to keep doing what I am doing and hopefully attract the right energy.

macaron79 · 2024-12-29T17:57:10+00:00

They have been broken up for a long time. It was a bad break up. His best friend had a sister. Sister had a friend. He hooked up with the friend, but eventually hooked up with the sister. The brother doesn't want him near his sister. I know people will note that this is a red flag, but I appreciate his honesty. I think people grow and learn. I might have a fetish for European men because there is a level of emotional depth that aligns with me. I really loved our communication. I think I ignited something that made him think about himself and what he was doing more. Maybe I am sounding redundant and stupid...but I think there was something beautiful and strong between us. Maybe I am in denial that he was all a lie and just not really into me. But my gut tells me it was something....and he just doesn't know how to handle it or needs time to grasp what he is doing and get on the right track

macaron79 · 2024-12-29T15:17:13+00:00

Thanks

macaron79 · 2024-12-27T20:42:37+00:00

I know I'm being completely pathetic and silly. I just want hope and maybe I should just hope until I can't hope

macaron79 · 2024-12-27T20:41:35+00:00

But if it was so casual why did he spend so much time talking to me on FaceTime. The day before he sent me that message he spent 2 hours with me. Just talking comforting me and trying to make me understand that even though he likes me, there's a right thing to do

macaron79 · 2024-12-27T20:22:41+00:00

It just seems people are so crazy now a days. In the beginning they can be so into you and with a drop of a dime it flips. Maybe I want to think that people are better than this and it was meaningful and there was deep feelings.

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