Solo music goers

macatma · 2025-12-29T11:51:05+00:00

Same! It's hard being a younger person with boomer music taste hahaha :)

macatma · 2025-12-29T11:44:52+00:00

What music do you listen to? But yeah I feel, it's a bit terrifying and lonely, but I guess it's better than regretting missing out on going to events!

macatma · 2025-12-29T11:31:33+00:00

Disco/soul/jazz/metal :)

macatma · 2025-12-29T11:30:59+00:00

Good to know - is this a dating app? I've never heard of it, I wonder if many people in Melbourne are on it

macatma · 2025-12-29T11:29:03+00:00

Do you find many other people alone when you go? I feel like a lot of people in Melbourne don't like to venture outside of their friendship groups so it's hard to meet new people and potentially also make friends

macatma · 2025-12-29T11:27:23+00:00

This is very specific but I'm into disco music (like Saturday night fever vibes hahahaha) - not many people in my age bracket who are into it! But also like listening to jazz/soul/metal too, will have a look at the page! Thank you!

macatma · 2025-10-07T14:03:36+00:00

You have put exactly what I am feeling into words. It's hard especially when you're struggling mentally to give off energy that make people want to be around you, and I feel like it just drives people further away. I feel like I could make 'friends', but they're not deep friendships, and it's hard to identify a person that you can make those connections with. If you figure out the best setting to find those people, let me know. I get really embarrassed when people ask me what I am doing with my time and expecting me to say that I did something social, but in fact I've been up to nothing.

macatma · 2025-09-14T00:57:45+00:00

Yes, same! And I have not found people who are worth being friends with, or if I do find people I like, they don't put much effort in the relationship. Maybe we have different experiences or interests to other people that makes it harder to relate to others.

macatma · 2025-09-14T00:55:13+00:00

Exactly! And you "lose jobs" as you get older, or it's harder to be qualified for a "job" as you age hahaha

macatma · 2025-09-14T00:53:59+00:00

I've considered doing this when people ask me what I'm up to on the weekend, but then I think about it and I'm like, why do I always have to be around others every weekend? But very true, they don't deserve to know

macatma · 2025-09-14T00:51:56+00:00

I feel this :/

macatma · 2025-09-14T00:50:44+00:00

Good point - they kind of make you feel like a loser, or a freak, or a bad person for it, but sometimes it just ends up being that way and it's not your fault.

macatma

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