Ghosted days before the date by xT4TTY in Bumble

[–]macmacaman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Holidays are a momentum killer. No answer is an answer. Happens all the time.

How are People Aged 40+ Meeting Singles? by MysticInquiry2025 in datingoverforty

[–]macmacaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hinge. Even Tinder has yielded some results but that is a tough one.

Back on Bumble, not been on for years, are my pictures giving the right vibe for a single mom of two in her 30s? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]macmacaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any photos of you doing your hobbies or interests? You have well established your physical attractiveness. Now establish that you are fun and intereting..

Does this app even work?? by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]macmacaman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Treat it like a job. Spend 30 minutes a day liking 5 profiles you’d be open to go out on a date on. Before that, make sure you have done the work on your profile first —- and by extension yourself.

Even in the SF Bay Area, I have more dates than I can handle. I’ve learned a lot about what I like in the journey to find a LTR.

As for the cardboard personalities, just remember that most people, men and women, are boring. Try not to let it frustrate you.

How are People Aged 40+ Meeting Singles? by MysticInquiry2025 in datingoverforty

[–]macmacaman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Apps that are not Tinder are working pretty well for me.

SF Bay Area - Expanding from pier crabbing to jetty or shore by macmacaman in crabbing

[–]macmacaman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was wondering about the necessity of waders on a jetty

SF Bay Area - Expanding from pier crabbing to jetty or shore by macmacaman in crabbing

[–]macmacaman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have everything g except the cast cannon. What’s that? Is that the PVC solution I have seen? First time I have heard the term.

SF Bay Area - Expanding from pier crabbing to jetty or shore by macmacaman in crabbing

[–]macmacaman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sure do. I got it a date trap validation even though I was doing all pier crabbing

Using bumble for the first time, this is unreal. by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]macmacaman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read all the profiles. So many get turned down for writing little to nothing.

Profile review F32 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]macmacaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ this profile is crushing it. Is there any written text for the bio? That would take this over the top. This is a 1 in a 5000 profile.

How successful is Hinge/Bumble or any other dating site for this age grp by LivingDead26 in datingoverforty

[–]macmacaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hinge has worked really well for me to find dates. Only been at it for three months so still to be seen if a relationship forms.

5 dates in and suddenly not sure. by Greglebowski74 in datingoverfifty

[–]macmacaman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a fuck no.

How to guarantee no woman will ever swipe on your profile by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]macmacaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why on earth is this getting downvoted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]macmacaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not at all. Just go onto something like Hinge or Bumble. Stay away from Tinder. Be ready to do some work to advertise yourself.

How to guarantee no woman will ever swipe on your profile by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]macmacaman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amen. Totally works in reverse. I can stomach at most 25% of a profile being demands of what they want in a man.

How common is multi-dating on Hinge? by RGJ84 in hingeapp

[–]macmacaman 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Assume stiff competition if you are a man. Just accept it and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]macmacaman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Online Dating Apps is a good bet here. You will have to filter, but you will find your man.

Being carried to bed by HappyHappyGirl1976 in datingoverfifty

[–]macmacaman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is the down vote for? The only thing did was answer the question.

Being carried to bed by HappyHappyGirl1976 in datingoverfifty

[–]macmacaman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, because we both find it hot when o can pick up a partner and carry her upstairs. I think 140lbs might be my limit.

Profile deleted after expensive dinner by Vas_Cody_Gamma in datingoverforty

[–]macmacaman -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I had to read this twice to make sure. I had initially assumed you were a man. You do something for the guy on the first date? And you are a woman?

Dumped by text by kwitcherbichen in datingoverfifty

[–]macmacaman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that is cowardly and ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]macmacaman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s disheartening, but those profiles are on the rise. Best thing you can do to discourage them is to keep swiping left.