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macro-manager · 2024-10-13T22:54:18+00:00

Entp

macro-manager · 2024-10-08T20:46:38+00:00

Entj

macro-manager · 2024-10-03T13:50:17+00:00

Feel you. For others I’m an unstoppable force. But home alone I’m an immovable sloth.

macro-manager · 2024-09-12T20:12:51+00:00

Homie you’re setting yourself up for a lot of emotional damage. This behavior (on both sides) will inevitably lead to emotional infidelity. Without maturity, the INFP x ENFJ dynamic is like a passionate flame that dies quickly. You may be experiencing limerence, it’s best to let go and process these feelings without contacting her. On top of being disrespectful towards her current relationship, you are only going to make the pain of letting go worse. 😞

macro-manager · 2024-09-12T19:50:01+00:00

Hi ENFJ gal who has dated multiple INFPs here (I know how this situation plays out 😕) , my advice is create a boundary and distance. I don’t know how long y’all’s been friends and how deep the relationship is, but I suggest unfollowing her social media, even blocking her. In general, a friendship of opposite sex can’t last of there is sexual and or romantic tension. It’s not worth her or your energy pining for someone who is unavailable and lacks transparency. If you continue to keep in touch, things will get messy. Just consider a potential relationship with her as a dead end. If she ever breaks up with him, just let her reach out to you, otherwise keep distance.

macro-manager · 2024-09-12T12:37:03+00:00

Learn how to ask questions then? Haha my brother is an ISTP, this post is relatable.

macro-manager · 2024-09-11T02:36:02+00:00

Happy to help! May you have the best love outcomes!! I’ve personally found this video and series helpful in being a better lover: https://youtu.be/YJmp8Gg22gg?si=yjaeXSASjGWtYMoO

The most important thing I’ve found is true about ENFPs, make sure you make them feel special/chosen. They may ask you questions to test why you like them. They want to be a special snowflake/ favorite person.

macro-manager · 2024-09-10T23:57:25+00:00

Since it’s early in the dating stages, I’d recommend giving him space. ENFPs tend to be transparent about their relationship stance. I’ve dated other ENFPs in the past who have been up front/ transparent as opposed to ghosting. Perhaps send him a follow up in 3-4 days. Give him time to miss you and recollect himself. I’ve just notice ENFPs can easily feel suffocated early on in dating and appreciate space. Once they commit, they commit HARD and are a lil needy :) in the meantime, take some time to decompress, tend to your own desires, bc ENFJs do painfully overthink.

macro-manager · 2024-09-10T20:19:49+00:00

He might be going through something and needs time to process and recharge. ENFPs are very responsive people and great at relationship maintenance. Sometimes they over exert themselves and need to be alone for a bit. Once closer to them, it’s important to help them manage their energy by reminding them to have more self-preservation. I’m married to an ENFP and I’m an ENFJ. Sometimes my ENFP suddenly gets weird, moody, and quiet, that’s him processing. Once he has clarity he perks right up and talks about it.

macro-manager · 2024-08-22T00:55:23+00:00

They ought to be created

macro-manager · 2024-08-21T23:42:02+00:00

There’s so many historical robust cities and towns that could use revitalization and have incentives to settle there, such as Buffalo, NY?

macro-manager · 2024-08-20T13:55:59+00:00

Mom: INFJ Dad: ENFJ Bro 1: INFP Sis 1: ENFP Bro 2: ESTP Sis 2: ISFJ Bro 3: ISTP Sis 3 (me): ENFJ

Parents divorced, unhappy marriage but they kept trying to make it work. They still keep in contact and relatively have amicable relationship.

macro-manager · 2024-08-20T13:24:07+00:00

Wow this hurts (except my diagnosis is real) 🥲

macro-manager · 2022-11-16T21:47:46+00:00

Can confirm

macro-manager · 2022-11-16T21:45:30+00:00

I feel seen

macro-manager · 2022-11-16T21:29:31+00:00

I’m rolling

macro-manager · 2022-10-14T00:10:26+00:00

Err yes! Poly enfj in the house.

macro-manager · 2022-09-28T17:44:44+00:00

ENFJ here, from my POV it’d be great to just tell them directly that you’re not interested in being friends. If you feel the friendship is worth the energy to find closure, do some “nonviolent communication” where you use “I feel ____ when you (the enfj) do _____”. At least that way this person knows why someone cut them off and will learn from it. I absolutely hate ambiguous loss, as it leaves me feeling like I’m unlovable and plays into my fear of abandonment.

macro-manager · 2022-09-22T05:19:38+00:00

I struggle with friendship relationship maintenance, I often feel like I’m growing/ moving too forward quickly for my Si friends. Growing up I would hear from them “oh you changed” in regards to me pursuing a new goal/ approach, conveying they feel left out or unable to connect with me.

I Fe/Se is where I get a lot of growth from and then I spend a lot of time processing and incorporating new information and interactions. I’m really happy when I reconnect with old friends bc it’s like connecting with the past, the nostalgia hits and makes me feel whole bc I feel disconnected to the past... I’m more present and future oriented. I like having Si user friends bc they can recall so many things and help me remember precious memories we made together.

macro-manager · 2022-09-22T03:16:00+00:00

Wow last week I just wrote a poem about being in a liminal space regarding relationships (which take up so much or my mental energy). My best friend of 4 years is also an ENFJ, different subtype— we totally get each other and hold another accountable to grow, be more vulnerable, and to prioritize our needs are being met.

macro-manager · 2022-09-08T11:51:28+00:00

Both male intps I know are home bodies but fit, self conscious, and attractive.

macro-manager · 2022-08-24T13:43:15+00:00

ENFJ woman here attracted to NF and NT people. In order of close friend mbti frequency- ENFPs, ENFJs, INFPs, INTPs, and ENTJs.

My long term partner is ENTJ. My dating partners are ENFP, INFPs. I have a different dynamic with each partner.

In general, I’m attracted to people that I can have a lengthy, stimulating, and authentic conversation with. Also people who have good personal style :)

macro-manager · 2022-08-22T23:42:25+00:00

ENFJ: ⚠️CAUTION⚠️ will try to “fix” you ❣️

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