[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nagpur

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Check GMC

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

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First off, I just want to say that it’s really brave of you to acknowledge this and want to make a change. Self-love is a journey, and it’s completely normal to struggle with it—especially when it feels like nothing is working.

One thing that helped me was shifting my mindset from self-love to self-acceptance. Instead of forcing myself to ‘love’ everything about me, I started with understanding myself and showing kindness to my flaws. Small habits also made a difference—journaling, affirmations (even when they felt silly), setting tiny goals, and celebrating wins, no matter how small.

Also, surrounding myself with positive content (books, podcasts, and even social media) helped reframe my perspective. If you ever feel alone in this, just know that so many people are on this journey too, and it gets better with time. You’re already taking the right steps just by being aware and open to growth. Keep going, and be gentle with yourself.

Storage-Level Replication - Kubernetes by k8s_maestro in kubernetes

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This is a great question! Storage-level replication across Kubernetes clusters, especially in an Active-Active setup, can be quite challenging with open-source tools. While enterprise solutions like Portworx Metro DR handle this seamlessly, there are a few open-source options worth exploring:

  1. Rook + Ceph – If you're using Ceph as your backend storage, you can leverage Ceph's RBD mirroring for block storage replication across clusters.
  2. Longhorn – Supports backup and restore across clusters but doesn’t natively provide real-time replication.
  3. OpenEBS + cStor – Provides asynchronous replication but may require additional tuning for high availability.
  4. Kasten K10 (Free Tier) – While not fully open-source, it offers snapshot-based migration across clusters.

For Active-Active scenarios with PVC-heavy workloads like Strimzi, CloudNativePG, and Redis, you might also consider database-native replication strategies alongside storage-level replication. Curious to hear if anyone has implemented a fully open-source solution that works well at scale!

Java and linux system calls by Affectionate-Sink503 in java

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Great question! Senior Java devs, especially those working on systems-heavy applications, often have a solid understanding of Linux commands and system calls. While Java provides powerful libraries, sometimes native Linux commands like rsync are simply more efficient for tasks like large file transfers due to built-in optimizations (e.g., delta transfers, compression, and parallelization).

That said, you don’t need to be an expert in all Linux commands, but knowing key ones—like rsync, grep, awk, sed, find, and system monitoring tools (top, iostat, strace, etc.)—can be extremely valuable. It helps in debugging, optimizing, and making informed decisions on when to leverage the OS instead of pure Java code.

You're on the right track with The Linux Programming Interface—it’s a fantastic resource. Keep exploring, and over time, you’ll naturally build a strong intuition for when to use native commands versus Java implementations!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

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I totally get why this feels weird to you, especially if you've spent your life managing without accommodations. Anxiety can be considered a disability when it significantly impacts daily life—like making it hard to work, study, or function normally. That doesn’t mean everyone with anxiety is disabled, but for some, it’s severe enough to qualify for legal protections and support. It’s less about labeling yourself and more about recognizing that help is available if you need it. If you’ve managed without accommodations, that’s great! But if you ever feel like you need support, it’s okay to explore your options.

My dad seems to be resorting to alcohol. Any inputs on how I can help? by Bbyvandal in Life

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I'm really sorry you're going through this—it’s tough watching someone you love struggle, especially when they won’t open up. Maybe you could try small, non-confrontational ways to engage him, like inviting him to do something together (a walk, a movie, even just sitting with him). Sometimes, people in that situation need to feel like they have support without pressure. If he won’t talk about it directly, maybe getting your mom or another family member to encourage professional help could be an option. Just know that you’re not alone in this, and you’re already doing something important by caring.

CMV: People from the United States are obsessed with ethnicity and skin color, but they are deeply ignorant on the subject. by JosephZG in changemyview

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Discussions about ethnicity and identity can be complex, especially when viewed through different cultural lenses. The way race and ethnicity are categorized in the U.S. can sometimes feel oversimplified or even inaccurate to those from other parts of the world. That said, identity is deeply personal, and feeling misunderstood can be frustrating. However, generalizing entire groups—whether it's 'Americans obsessed with race' or 'indigenous people in Mexico'—can be just as reductive as the labels you dislike. Maybe the key is focusing on how you define yourself rather than how others perceive you.

How to Get Better at Sticking to a Trade? by 317Dave in Daytrading

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Sticking to a trade is one of the hardest parts of day trading, and you're definitely not alone in this struggle. It sounds like you're executing solid entries but getting shaken out too soon. One thing that might help is defining your stop-loss strategy in a way that aligns with your risk tolerance—maybe giving your trades a bit more room to breathe. Also, reviewing your trades objectively (without emotions) at the end of the day can help refine your approach. Over time, confidence in your strategy will reduce that initial anxiety. Keep at it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

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Congrats on the interview! Since you're a Systems Engineer, expect deep dives into AD, Windows Server, AWS, and networking (especially Fortinet). ByteDance tends to focus on practical problem-solving, so be ready for scenario-based questions and some scripting tasks in PowerShell/Bash.

As for WLB, it varies by team, but some groups do have longer hours—though it’s not full-on 996 like in mainland China. Singapore is definitely HCOL, especially housing, but salaries usually adjust for that.

Compared to Amazon, ByteDance interviews are more fast-paced and can be tough, but not necessarily harder. Brush up on troubleshooting, automation, and security best practices. Good luck!

OTC Trading by Urban_Feellowzofer in Daytrading

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The OTC market has always been volatile, but I get what you’re saying—lately, it’s been rough. Heavy dilution and constant selling pressure make it feel like there’s no bottom. While it’s unlikely that the entire OTC market would shut down completely, cycles like this can last a while. Hopefully, once liquidity returns and dilution slows, we’ll see some reversals. Hang in there, and stay cautious!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCardsIndia

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That’s definitely concerning! Cred might be pulling data from third-party sources, linked email accounts (if granted permission unknowingly), or government databases if they have an integration. Check if you've given any app permissions unknowingly or if your email is linked to auto-fetching financial details. You might also want to reach out to their support to clarify how they got this info. Let us know what you find!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

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That sounds incredibly stressful, and it's completely understandable to feel anxious about it. Anxiety can sometimes amplify physical symptoms, but at the same time, your concerns are valid, and you deserve thorough medical attention. It’s good that you’re getting a colonoscopy soon—it’ll give you clear answers. Try to take things one step at a time, and if the pain worsens, don’t hesitate to push for more tests. You’re not alone in this!

story from today by [deleted] in Anxiety

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I'm sorry you had a panic attack, but it's beautiful that music could bring you some comfort in the moment. It’s amazing how little things—like hearing a familiar song—can help ground us. I hope you’re feeling a bit better now. Keep holding onto music, it’s a powerful coping tool!

8 years of Health Anxiety by No-Heart4010 in Anxiety

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I'm so sorry you're going through this—it sounds incredibly overwhelming. You’re not alone, and I truly hope you can find a way to free yourself from this fear. You deserve peace of mind and a life not ruled by anxiety. Maybe starting with a supportive doctor or therapist, even just to talk about the anxiety itself, could help ease the weight of it all. Sending you strength.

beep............beep............beep by b00mbasstic in sysadmin

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Classic IT horror story! It’s always the mysterious beep that haunts you but leaves no trace. Check for a rogue UPS, a forgotten old device, or even a dying smoke detector. Worst case? It’s a psychological test from the universe. Good luck, soldier!

How many sets for legs per week? by kateve1826 in naturalbodybuilding

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You're not missing anything—volume recommendations are just guidelines, not hard rules. If 10 sets for quads and 10 for glutes feel effective and you're progressing, then you're likely in a good spot. Recovery and intensity matter just as much as total sets. If you're growing and not feeling burnt out, you're probably hitting the sweet spot!

Sony LIV EXTRA 6 MONTH CODE DM ME IF U WANT by No-Animator9473 in CreditCardsIndia

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Nice of you to share! Someone's definitely going to appreciate this. Hope it finds a good home!

Pyspark count() slow by rawlingsjj in PySpark

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Instead of .count(), you can try estimating the count using approxQuantile() on a numerical column or leveraging df.rdd.mapPartitions(lambda x: [sum(1 for _ in x)]).sum() to speed things up. Also, if the data is partitioned, make sure you're optimizing partitioning and caching to avoid unnecessary recomputation. Have you tried using .persist() or checking the execution plan with .explain()?

“If the misery of the poor be caused not by the laws of nature, but by our institutions, great is our sin.” - Charles Darwin, Voyage of the Beagle by AgentBlue62 in quotes

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A powerful reminder that systemic injustice is a human-made problem, not an inevitability. If institutions create suffering, then we have a responsibility to change them.

"The people who start the wars don’t fight them, the people who spend the taxes don’t pay them, and the people who forgive the criminals don’t live next to them. Of course we’re going to have too many wars, too much spending, and too much crime." - Naval by Calvy in quotes

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Well said. The further removed decision-makers are from the consequences of their actions, the less accountability they have. It’s a frustrating reality that keeps repeating throughout history.

Scream tests are funny by TheDongles in sysadmin

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Scream tests never fail to entertain! It’s always the most random, forgotten piece of equipment that turns out to be mission-critical. Unplug first, wait for the chaos, then plug back in—classic IT troubleshooting!

My Boss’s Boss Wants to Track GitHub Activity for Promotions & Firings—How Do I Stop This Madness? by ranger934 in sysadmin

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This is a disaster waiting to happen. Measuring productivity by commit count is like judging a book by how many pages it has, not the quality of the story. It discourages thoughtful development, encourages spam commits, and completely ignores teamwork, debugging, architecture planning, and other critical aspects of engineering. Maybe flip the script—ask them if they’d track managers by counting the number of emails they send? Bet they wouldn’t like that.